i love it! but he doesn't!!! I do not understand this logic! To me, "hanging out" in bed is something i could do any time of day, for AGES, and not get sick of it. whereas, if it's not morning or night, he doesn't want to be in bed. Why not?!?! What do u think bout this?
2007-02-07 04:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your boyfriend is whacko! That's what I think....
Hanging out in bed all day is the best fun a couple can have.
2007-02-07 04:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner would only ever spend a whole day in bed if he were dying.... he was raised to be busy and working... to spend a day in bed would fill him with so much guilt that he would be miserable for days after..
I have encouraged him to not be such a worker bee and to learn to relax and enjoy life a little, these days he will lie in for an extra half hour through the week and a whole hour on weekends... and to him that is an extravagance of time...
Like you I would love a whole day in bed with him but to be honest I know him well enough to know that doing just that would not be pleasant for him as the guilt would ruin any of the good feelings I'd like him to have.
2007-02-07 07:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its alright and im a guy but not every day spending the whole day in the bed with your gf even that can get boring
2007-02-07 04:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Cool_Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want to spend all day in bed because it could lead to something else (if you haven't already done it).
If that's not it, well, he's a guy. He wants to be out and about. He probably gets bored easily. And laying in bed all day is pretty boring. Atleast that's what I think.
2007-02-07 04:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people have to be moveing, for some theres no reason to sleep or lay in bed all day when they can be doing someting productive, im like that alot, its hard for me to just lay around when theres a million other things i could be doing. i could be snowboarding, or horseback rideing why would i want to lay in bed all day?
2007-02-07 04:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its certainly one of those themes which you think of of confident it relatively is great, previously you're attempting to on the excellent ocassion as quickly as you're great stud and extremely final for further then a minutes curiously like it ought to bypass on invariably yet as at once as you hit an hour, boy desires a loosen up, thats extra then sufficient for the day
2016-12-17 11:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by alisme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in BED or just relaxing in bed
there's more to a relationship than just being in the bed
but if you just wanna let it all go for the day and stay in bed in the morning then thats fine
maybe he just has a better idea of relaxing with you
go ask him, best thing i can say
2007-02-07 04:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jess and Doyin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are too many things to do in the normal day than to just lay around.
2007-02-07 04:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a personality thing....some people like to be 'doing' something active when they are with their significant other--i had a boyfriend like that awhile back and sometimes i just had to ask him if we could just chill and literally 'do' nothing....maybe talk to your boyfriend about it, tell him that youd really like to spend some time in bed just cuddling, and maybe come to a compromise--you do something that he'd like to do on say, a saturday, and then spend sunday in bed just chillin....or vice versa....
good luck!
2007-02-07 04:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mary J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are "go-getters." They like to go out and accomplish things during their day. Laying around doesn't do it for them. Its his loss.
2007-02-07 04:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by brewer82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋