i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. (that might not seem long but he's my first so i think we're doing pretty well).
anyway, he's the absolute perfect guy: kind, considerate, thoughful, good personality and so on. The only thing we're lacking is the showing of emotion. he says he's never loved anyone before, therefore i dont want to pressure him into saying it without meaning it, but how do i get him to be more romantic. (eg tell me how much i mean to him or so on)?
i dont want to tell him what i want him to do or say to me because then when he does it, it might seem fake. btw we're both rather shy.
sorry btw for the long post. i know it might not sound like a big problem, but it's really bothering me.
any advice would be appreciated, thanks a bunch!
2007-02-07 03:07:29 · 5 answers · asked by blithe_vow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay gf some people find it hard to express their feelings and it's perfectly normal. I understand that it's driving u mad him not saying it but i kind of know where he's coming from i do that too. Maybe he just wants to make sure when he does say it that u r the right person and u won't hurt him. Don't worry about it that much girl i'm sure he adores u!
2007-02-07 03:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by tomboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is just be patient, and be who you are. There is no timeframe on love, it happens when it happens. Just be patient and see how things develope, you can ask how he feels about you if you want to go that route, just to see. Just right now, enjoy spending time together and trust your heart, and all will be well.
God Bless
2007-02-07 03:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for him to talk to you about it. He'll say how he feels when he's ready. If you pressure him into talking about how he feels (guys hate talking about feelings), then he may resent it and dump you. Just tell him that you care about him. That's not saying that you love him, but it is saying that he's important to you.
2007-02-07 03:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just arent that affectionet. They tend to tell you how much you mean to them in a diffrent way. so you need to see what that way is
2007-02-07 03:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him....
2007-02-07 03:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋