2007-02-07 03:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by Tweety 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
No, you need to think about all the people's who lives you touch. I had a suicide in my family ans it was the most devastating thing to all of us. Seek professioanl help asap.
2007-02-07 03:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by carrie dakota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem like it to you. Obviously if you're thinking those thoughts, your life is really hella hard right now.
I've been there. One day I jumped up from my desk at work, drove to the airport, got on a plane and went to Las Vegas. I thought that would be a good place to off myself.
I've been hospitalized twice for suicide issues. I'm still here though.
Some things are hard, but I used to tell myself, what's the worst that can happen, can whatever I'm going through kill me? I'd rather fight to the death than be the one to give in and take my own life.
Because you probably have some good times to enjoy around the corner and you don't even know it yet.
Good luck to you, stay strong, don't give up!
2007-02-07 03:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by MBA Grad Student 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not healthy and you should get some help to talk out your suicidal feelings even if you don't think you will ever actually carry them out. You didn't say whether you meant physical or emotional pain but if the pain is physical then see a pain management doc. If the pain is emotional then see a mental health professional.
2007-02-07 03:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for each and everyone of us to think of suicide when one is feeling down in the dumps.... But if you are constantly thinking of it... its definitely not healthy.... It affect your health and the relationship wif people around you...
I don't know what pain you are suffering.. Whether if its pain due to some illness, ailments or emotional pain... Either way, all i can say is that I can understand how you feel... A few years ago, I used to think that suicide was the best way to heal my pain emotionally... Its the beginning of the year and my bf sms me to say that its better for us to remain as frens... It was devastating for me cos I love him so much and we had been together for 5 yrs... And then my mum became sick and I was laid off from work..I was really really upset.... There are times when i juz couldnt hold on to life anymore... When I feel that its pushing me nearer and nearer to the edge of me ending my life....
Yet somehow, deep inside me, I try to persevere, try to be strong for the sake of myself, my family, and my frens... Try to slowly trudge forward and move on although deep inside me, i wish that i could just lay down and not move on...
And all i can say is that sometimes things happened for a reason. With those setbacks hurled at me, I actually discover things taht i had never thought i would discover, about myself and also other things... And I actually became stronger emotionally, yes i did break up with my bf but now I actually find someone who was much better than my ex and as for my job, now i ended up doing something that i actually love and enjoyed, something which i had never thought i would do if i had stayed on with my old job... And as for my mum, it make me treasure her more...
You know what, yes you may feel like s*** right now and think that suicide is the best option... but somehow when you think back one day, you will be grateful for the setbacks that had been hurled at you now... Because life works in such a funny way...There's more to life..Its just a matter of time before it will happen... Always remember that bad things are not always permanent, good things may happen soon... its just a matter of time....
For every sadness comes happiness, for every darkness comes light... Juz imagine if your life is so predictable.. it will be boring and dull... Everything always happens for a reason, you may not find it now, but the answer will come when you least expect it, and that is the day when you will be grateful for the things or events that had happened to you.. Be strong.... Cos for every step you move in life is a step for new lessons to be learnt, mistakes never to be repeated, new things to be discovered... :) Be and stay strong!!! Its only a passing dark cloud.. Soon the sunshine will came out and dry the rain away... :) And yes time will and do heal the pain!!!!
2007-02-07 04:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatevanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS IT HEALTHY? THE ANSWER IS DEFINATELY NO ! ! ! IS IT NORMAL WHEN YOU ARE IN SEVERE PAIN ALL THE TIME--YES ! ! ! THIS IS SOMETHING I FIGHT EVERYDAY AND HAVE FOUGHT FOR THE LAST 6 YRS. I DID TAKE MY DR.'S ADVICE AND FOUND A VERY GOOD PHYCOLOGIST AND PSYCHIATRIST THAT I CONTINUE TO SEE TO THIS DAY AND WILL PROBABLY CONTINUE TO SEE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. SEVERE,CONTINUOUS PAIN CAN TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE--COMPLETELY, TO THE POINT YOU THINK " WHY DO I KEEP DOING THIS, I DON'T WANT TO LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE. I CAN'T KEEP GOING ON" YOU FEEL TOTALLY HELPLESS, USELESS, AND AT THE MERCY OF EVERYONE .. AS GOD IS MY WITNESS.....I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES AND I FIGHT IT EVERYDAY. SOMETIMES I STILL GO TO BED AND PRAY TO GOD TO JUST TAKE ME HOME BEFORE MORNING. IN ASKING YOUR QUESTION, YOU ARE REACHING OUT. TAKE THAT ONE STEP FURTHER AND GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP. I FOUGHT WITH MY DR. ABOUT GOING TO A "NUT" DR. FOR A LONG TIME BEFORE I GAVE IN. NOW WITH ALL MY DR.'S WORKING TOGETHER I FEEL LIKE LIFE IS WORTH LIVING AND AS THE SAYING GOES,"GOD'S NOT THROUGH WITH ME YET". THE CONTINUAL PAIN PUTS YOU IN A DEEP DEPRESSION, DEEPER THAN EVEN YOU THINK YOU ARE IN. SURE THERE ARE SOME PHYSCOLOGISTS AND PHYSICIATRISTS OUT THERE THAT YOU JUST DON'T HIT IT OFF WITH AND CAN'T TALK TO BUT DON'T GIVE UP. PRAY ABOUT IT AND I PROMISE YOU, YOU WILL FIND ONE THAT ACTUALLY KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND THAT YOU CAN TALK WITH HONESTLY. I SEE A PAIN SPECIALIST ROUTINELY AND ALL THREE DR.'S STAY IN TOUCH SO THAT THEY CAN KEEP ME ON THE RIGHT TRACK. DON'T GIVE UP,WHATEVER YOU DO. YOU ARE STARTED IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION--YOU ASKED THE QUESTION. NOW TAKE SOME ADVICE AND TAKE THAT QUESTION FAR ENOUGH TO GET SOME GOOD SOUND HELP.
2007-02-07 03:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by vicky t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain can be so intense that the contemplation not the action IS valid.
HOPE -The Trigger Point Therapy Workbook by Davies teaches what my chiropractor has been working on me with. I hope you read it learn and heal.
2007-02-08 17:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Keko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you believe only in medicines! right?
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2007-02-07 05:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by dbgyog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not healthy. You need go and seek help. It has gone threw my mind, but that is not the way out.
2007-02-07 03:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by fire 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not healthy and you know that.
Seek help from friends, your doctor, your minister, a help line....
Don't do this. The results could be permanent.
2007-02-07 03:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your situation, your suicidal thoughts may be understandable, but never healthy.
Please seek professional help. If you think nobody cares, you are wrong.
I care.
2007-02-07 03:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋