i have this co-worker who is extra attentive and friendly to everybody. he is more chatty with me and drives me to work (we stay near) when he gets the car, which is once in a blue moon. I feel myself infatuated with him. I can't say the same for him as he behaves kind of different from normal guys, so I can't tell. But it is impossible for us to work out. He's the typical bachelor and i am attached. How can i stop infatuating with him, i see him every work day
2007-02-07 02:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
INFATUATED is nothing you might be attached but your not dead girl. just looking isn't a crime I'm sure your mate looks too and as far as how to stop, thats on you just look at him and think of your mate that will bring you back to reality real quick...LOL
2007-02-07 02:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by lsal_lizzys 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
doesnt sound like you are that interested in whoever you are attached to. maybe for that guy's sake focus on something annoying about your co-worker and realize that no one will live up to your fantasies about them. or just tell him and get it over with, i agree it is a pressure reliever.
2007-02-07 10:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you spending less time with your lover? Maybe your inner feeling spells lonely and you are infatuated with this guy because you see him everyday.
2007-02-07 10:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tough situation. just act normal or cut down the time you talk to him..just smile and be friendly without getting more invovled in the friendship growing part! good luck!
2007-02-07 10:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best way to get it out is just to tell the guy you like him.
It is a pressure reliever.
2007-02-07 10:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be honest with him about your feelings...take what he gives in return if it doesnt work out resort back to flirty friendly friends...nothing wrong with that...good luck
2007-02-07 10:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just do him & see if it works
2007-02-07 10:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, you have the perfect opportunity to have sex at work, which is a lot of peoples fantasies! what are you waiting for? besides, if you don't tell anyone, your bf will never know. what he don't know won't hurt him.
2007-02-07 10:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋