Since last week, whenever I am sleeping on my stomach, my gf bends over me and pulls off my pants and boxer. Then she does all sorts of things to my butt (grabbing, kissing, sucking, licking) which sends me to heaven. But 2 days ago, she tied me up the same way but this time she put her fingers in it which made me feel really wierd and every time I tried to ask her to stop she just go deeper which just shuts me up. So all you girls, do u know why is she doing this to me?
2007-02-07 02:20:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's a control thing. Also the more you tell her no during it the more she will want to do it. You need to talk with her about it outside of the bedroom. Let her know it is not okay and that you will not put up with it.
2007-02-07 02:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks you like that stuff! You need to put ur foot down a lil bit more or giv esome type of ultimatum because that can be uncomfortable to anyone. That **** does hurt and don't feel good at all. Oh, I know, have you given her any reasons to believe that you like men? Maybe she trying to find that out but in a horrible way! That could be a sign of insecurity.
I think you might need to lay the rules to her. Ask her if there is anything thiat she needs to talk about. and hoope that would clear the air abotu her wanting to do that sort of stuff.
2007-02-15 02:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by sexifemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i belive your girlfriend has a healthy curiosity, but has an unhealty way of showing it. As a woman, i have been interested in the effects of manipulation of a man's anus simply due to the reported information about the the prostate being reached and causing ejaculation, but i also understand that most men have an issue about being penetrated in the anus and the effect it has on their amnhood. Maybe she has this curiosity but is aware that it may not be a pleasurable thing to you so she puts you in a position of submission so she can have her way without interference. Or it could really be that she enjoys the "strange" side of sex and you just happen to be her victim. Ask her. That's the best way to get an answer.
2007-02-07 02:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just go with it? Let her put a finger in there and do some prostate stimulation. Ask her to go down on you while she is doing it. The combination of prostate stimulation and a BJ drives a man to heights of pleasure that is better than intercourse. (according to men Ive known anyway)
Be experimental.......you will be glad you did.....betcha.
2007-02-15 02:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all this anal stuff seems to be the rage these days...I think because once upon a time if a man enjoyed anything to do with his butt he would be considered gay but now they reckon men have a g spot in their anus so it has become more normal for a man to have his butt hole probed.And since times have changed and almost anything goes anal exploration seems to be the place where no one has gone before so it is still a novelty.....If this makes you uncomfortable tell her to stop...or ask her why she wants to play in the sewer when there is a pefactly nice park just around the corner....its got me beat why she wants to play in your butthole but each to there own i suppose
2007-02-14 20:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by deborah a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude,why are you LETTING her do that? Sounds like shes either bi or has a really screwed up fantasy in store for you to fulfil. scary.... Anyways,before you wake up and its a guy instead of her,be the man of the household and put a stop to that NOW!
2007-02-14 18:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how freaky a guy is. You have to observe and do little things before going that route. I would talk about it before doing it. Your girlfriend is a freak. She likes experimenting and doing kinky stuff. There's nothing wrong with that. If you don't enjoy stuff like that then tell her to stop. Talk to her about it.
2007-02-14 10:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ester C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is reading Cosmo too much.
That's just sick, but whatever
If you asked her to stop, she should stop....if you had done the same and she said stop but you didn't you could likely face rape charges.....is it really o.k. to be with someone who obviously has no respect for your boundaries?
Tell her to keep her fingers outta your ***, unless you really liked it at which point tell her to keep going.
2007-02-07 02:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by girl_with_the_most_CAKE2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like it? They say men get aroused from their butthole too..i found this to be true...she is just trying to please you in every way possible and if you dont like it then let her know that it makes you feel wierd...if you do shut up and enjoy it.....different people like different thing....you dont have to be gay to like the things she is doing to you...good luck dude
2007-02-07 02:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like rectal stimulation. If you don't ask that she never do it again. If she goes against your wishes, get a new girlfriend
2007-02-07 02:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋