she hasnt told anyone but me and shes trusting me not to tell but im not sure if i should keep quiet. what should i do?
2007-02-07 02:12:54 · 24 answers · asked by chenzira06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have her take a pregnancy test. If she is pregnant you need to convince her to tell your parents; she is too young to deal with this on her own.
2007-02-07 02:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said she "thinks" she is pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test or take her to the doctor's for a more accurate test. If she is not pregnant, provide her with the education she needs not to repeat the same mistake. If she is pregnant at the age of 13, I would hold a meeting to discuss this within the doctor's office so that a professional can well guide you on how to deal with the situation in a healthy way. Being pregnant at the age of 13 has great consequences physically and mentally both on the mother and baby.
2007-02-07 03:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Things First: Tell Harmony not to jump to this desicion so quickly. I know how hard it must be for you, being in this position, with a sister you love and care for having to make one of the hardest choices in her life. My daughter Rosalie is pregnant too (and is 13), and she too told her sister Christina (16) first. I am very sorry to hear that your mom would react violently to this. If Harmony does want to get an abortion, it his her choice, but in several states, you need parent permission. Also, make sure Harmony is eating healthy, and is staying away from excess excersice, and ,lifting heavy objects. Even if she wants to get an abortion anyway, her body can also get hurt, as it is very weak during pregnancy. Make sure she doesn't take too much stress either. I know it will be super hard, and I can't imagine how she must be feeling, but try to keep her spirits up. Good luck!
2016-05-24 02:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She NEEDS to take a pregnancy test immediately! Based on her character, if the test is negative, I would consider if I should tell the parents or not (there may be the risk that she rans away from home for shame, or fear, or confusion or whatever).
If the test is positive, you must convince her tell your parents and be there when she will. It must be her telling it, otherwise she will feel humiliated.
Otherwise, you should involve them in some way, she is too young to go through this alone and good parents would sustain and teach her, not harm because she did "the wrong thing". Whatever her choice will be....
2007-02-07 02:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by laurette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an older sister you should go and take her to a clinic. Planned parenthood and they will give her a test. If she is pregnant then you will be there with her to break the news to your parents. If she is not pregnant then you will have her get on birth control that she can get for free from the clinic and talk to her about having safe sex. There are too many diseases and sexual transmitted diseases that are not curable and can kill her. Remind her that you want the best for her that you will always be there for her.
2007-02-07 02:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important to find out if she is..... you could buy her a pregnancy test or have an adult you both trust buy it for her. I feel her parents or guardians need to aware that this is going on, or your sis needs to see a doctor to make sure she is healthy. I hope that she is not pregnant but if she is I am sure there are resources ( ex: plan parenthood or something) in your area that can help
Good luck
2007-02-07 02:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Somanyquestions,solittletime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for Starters. Some one either needs to get her to the doctor or get a home pregnancy test done. I think you do need to consult with your parents about this matter. She needs to be on some birth control if she is sexually active at 13 years old, and needs to be tested for STD's is she is sexually active.. So unless you have the means of getting her to the doctor to get her what she needs, which I am assuming she will need her mothers consent to get the care she needs. I hope she knows what she is in for if this is not a attention scheme. Good Luck!!
2007-02-07 02:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.
Get her a pregnancy test and make sure she is or isn't.
If she's not, tell her to STOP having sex, she is WAY TO YOUNG.
If she is, don't keep quiet, don't tell on her, but be with her when she does tell your parents....sometimes that support is worth more than all the money in the world.
2007-02-07 02:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by girl_with_the_most_CAKE2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect her decision, she did it she got pregnant. She should know her options, adoption, keeping the child etc. But keep it a secret, because it will have to come out of her eventually if she is. Just support her through this and dont tear her down.
2007-02-07 02:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_goddess2992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she only THINKS that she is pregnant, then don't tell anyone yet. If she is SURE that she is pregnant, then you should have a talk with her and get HER to tell your parents. It's her problem and she needs to learn how to deal with this, and she won't appreciate it is you tell
2007-02-07 02:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋