ok i know this sounds bad, but i was reading my boyfriends text messages and i read a text message that he got that said
"does she know, or did you just make up a story"
he wrote back to that...
"i told her it was nothing to pursue"
i know they have to bey talking about me. but he never did tell me that something was not to pursue. but he does lie to his friends like that. and i do believe that is his friend Leia's number that he works with. and once she sent him a text message calling him sexy and wanted to talk to him. i remember the time that i read that text message, we were all drinking with his other two friends and i had his phone in my hand when he got it. Do you wanna know what he did? i told him what it said and asked why his supposed friend was calling him sexy and stuff. he grabbed the phone and said what do you mean? and then he erased it and tried to make me believe that i never saw it.
so what do you think of this new test message?
should i ask him about it?
2007-02-07 02:11:21 · 10 answers · asked by Oklahoma Economist 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but if i tell him, thats admitting that i went thru his phone...
help me!
2007-02-07 02:11:43 · update #1
sent you my 2 cents...
be careful of the advice you follow...
2007-02-07 05:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is cheating on you. Denying it is one of the oldest games in the book. Trying to make you believe you're the one with the wild imagination and paranoid tendencies instead of owning up to the truth of what these texts mean.
Who cares what he thinks of your looking at his phone again. He is cheating, I think you should care more about that. Its time to call him to the carpet and kick his *** to the curb.
Don't take this bullshit anymore, you drop this loser and go find yourself someone who deserves you. Good luck.
2007-02-07 10:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to that other girl and ask why she is sending these messages? You never know he could have 2 girlfriends good luck
2007-02-07 10:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you let him go thru your phone? If he has something to hide, you will know it. Phone or no phone, if he is doing something that he knows is wrong, then it will catch up with him and it will come out. Good luck
2007-02-07 11:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by HA HA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like he is cheating, and cheating isnt quite the life to live. Would you really like to be cheated on till you guys break up or if you do? She knows that hes with you and shes still with him, and shes messed up and he is probably most definatley cheating.
2007-02-07 10:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_goddess2992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Be matured/ its not even worth discussing/ people behave differently at different times/ what suits them / better use ur judgement / keep mum n create that situation that the things comes to u itself/ dont be inquisitive/ behave normal. It is difficult to hve friends n more difficult to retain them/ by the way what do u do/ if possible tell me. blessed be.
2007-02-07 10:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he lies to his friends he will lie to you too. Only you can decide what to do but a relationship built on lies will not last very long.
2007-02-07 10:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by miner32001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like he is cheating,and trying to get pissed at you to take the heat off of his own a*s
2007-02-07 10:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He obviously lies to you on a regular basis. Lose him. He will continue to make you look like the fool.
2007-02-07 10:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Duh, do you have to walk in and see him with his pants down or what?!!! The guy is playing you! Dump him!!!
2007-02-07 10:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋