for girls only...
u recently got a 24 yrs old boyfriend, nice looking, handsome, having a nice sence of humor, playful etc...
what will you think about him if you learn that the guy is having sex for the first time???is it a shame?
you'd prefer that the guy tell you honestly he never had sex?
and if he dont but you notice that he's not used to sex, what will you think?? and which one will you prefer? he tell u or not?
2007-02-07 02:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would personally want the guy to tell me. I mean I'm not an expert because I've only had sex twice, but he is a first timer he shouldn't try to hide it. I actually think it's a good think that it would be his first time because that lets' you know that he hasn't slept with alot of women. I mean i wouldn't wnat to have sex with someone that has slept with over 5 ppl. So don't be ashamed because being a first timer isn't bad.
2007-02-07 02:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd actually be honored that he wanted to have his first time be with me. It's not a shame at all; it's a personal choice that should be made because you want to, not as some kind of conquest.
I'd rather have him tell me. But if he didn't and I noticed he wasn't used to it, I'd assume it was either his first time or early on.
I'd rather have honesty.
2007-02-07 10:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty ALWAYS!!! Besides, that is a "special" thing and the person you share it with should be special as well. No one will think bad of you if you tell the truth. If you're worried about experience, it just comes naturally. Yes, tell her! She will guide you in the direction she wants you to go........(If she truly cares for you)
2007-02-07 10:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell you partner. It could prove to be a real turn-on for her. If she is a decent person, she will not judge or think you strange. You have nothing to be ashamed of so, when the time is right for you, go for it!
2007-02-07 10:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it'd be sweet if he told me honestly that he never had sex. it's not a shame at all. i'd appreciate his honesty and not being easy with other girls. in fact, that would make me like him even more.
2007-02-07 10:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by dreamland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its cool a 24 year old man has never had sex.. cuz that means he is waiting on something speacial. I think you should tell her.. Honestly i wouldnt mind a virgin male.. at least there isnt anything she could catch..
2007-02-07 10:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nastassia P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not at all why would you be ashamed you should be proud that he waited unlike all of those who have sex with everyone they meet and who knows who slept with who. And as far as telling you if its his first time. He's probably just shy with all that's going Thur his mind. I would prefer he not tell me and let me teach him as we go......
2007-02-07 10:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by lsal_lizzys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id love it. id be like aww wow and he wants to do it with me
or if you are embarrased say u have only slept with 2 girls before. she wont mind she will help ya!
its not a bad thing. everyone goes through.
i thought i had it bad and im 19 and only slept with two ppl but not used 2 it either.
good luck hope u enjoy it xxx
2007-02-07 10:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt think any different of him.
Honesty is best in a relationship
He can learn from what you show him
2007-02-07 10:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we were in a relationship I would like for you to tell me. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-02-07 10:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋