how to make him listen ? shes fat and ugly like for reallllllllllllllll
its not that im shollow but think about it . shes nothing sepcial and some time she makes him sad , i understand lovers make each other sad some times but coming from someone isnt special!!
he went to another city to meet her. and he told me that he doesnt love her !! yeah right!! i wouldnt meet her if she was living next door , the other day he came to me and said i told my girlfriend that my phone bill is huge !! and she said " well, no one told u to call me" but they passed that now but still SHES FAT UGLY NO GOOD PERSONALLITY .. god know what he sees in her
im dead sure that hes deseprate !!!!!!!!!!
according to him he said that i know nothing about love and he has been friends with me for long time he never seen me ever said i love a girl ..
but that doesnt mean im not right about that chick . right?
2007-02-07 01:59:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no no no no hes my friend and he desevres better if he just waited a while a hott chick will holla at him i know him he can do better
he always that being with a fat chick better than being with nothing but i disagree
waiting some times brings u good STUFF
2007-02-07 02:04:14 · update #1
i just cannot believe that someone would date a person with no looks and no good personallity .. and with no money lol
plus she lives in another city
2007-02-07 02:17:26 · update #2
Don't try to help him, otherwise if things don't turn out good he will blame you for it.
Personaly, I wouldn't date her. No looks, bad personality.
Eventually he'll learn and find someone better.
2007-02-07 02:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by plehaq 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Fat chicks, skinny chicks, tall chicks, midget chicks. . . What do they all have in common? There chicks, and they know how to manipulate!
OK, so a little overkill but your friend evidently has hit a point in his life where he is either experimenting, or brutely being manipulated. I'm assuming youre friend is a mid-late teen? It sounds as if he has emotionally bounded himself to the first thing that has walked in front of and wagged the tail.
But does that mean that this girl is not right for him? Shes fat, shes a dog, and she has nothing holding her together except elmers glue and duck tape. Why would he think twice about her? The easy answer would be emotional attachment (or even sex), and the longer answer would be your friends confidence level.
There was a trick I learned a long time ago. It's called the "friends help friends" trick! Go pay some really good looking girl to boost your friends confidence, and play it straight with him for an hour or two. Leave him wanting more from that really good looking girl. Not only will this boost your friends confidence level, but it will test him to make him see if what he has at hand, is truly what he wants.
Be a good friend! But don't be a killer :)
2007-02-07 10:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by zaq23edc 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The heart wants what the heart wants. Even if you cannot see it this girl is meeting some need your friend has. There is some reason he is with her and he shouldn't have to explain it to you. If you are really his friend be supportive. If you can't be supportive then keep your mouth shut.
One day the relationship may end and you will be an even better friend if he doesn't have remember how much you objected to the girlfriend. If you keep your opinions to yourself he will feel like he's able to confide in you should he need to. Even if they break up, do not make negative comments. You never know if they will get back together and then you will be the bad guy
2007-02-07 10:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right!!! You are not SHOLLOW. You are SHALLOW and rude plus nosy. Why don't you mind your own business?
If your friend thinks that he will be happy with the girl, then let him do what he wants.
As a friend, you can just stay beside him when he needs one. Give him advice but that's it. If he won't listen then just keep quiet.
His just under the spell of the word LOVE.
But you know what, I think you are a good friend coz you bother to asked other people.
2007-02-07 10:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off I think you are rude and shallow. Heavy and unattractive people need love too. Maybe your friend see's that. Which I admire your friend for actually finding someone that isn't the same as everyone else. You are one of those guys that like the models right? The skinny girls that could blow away in the wind. Get a life and stop ridiculing your friend and his girlfriend. If you were a good friend you would leave your friend alone about his girlfriend and let him be with her. Relationships have their up's and down's, and I'm sure your friend is a big boy and can handle himself. Also, if you really dislike her weight and her looks then how can you say you have given her an actual chance in the personality department. I think you are just a self centered jerk and are afraid that your friends girlfriend may ruin YOUR reputation. Leave your friend alone and get on with your life.
2007-02-07 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just because you think that she is fat and ugly doesn't mean that your friend thinks so and even though you don't like her you have to respect her because that's your friend girlfriend. That's not fair to him you acting the way you are. You need to list to what he's saying Love is serious and real and you can't let your friend walk out of your life over a girl if you don't like just try to work the things out try to talk to her she might be something different then just a fat ugly chick your friend loves. You might grow to like her to!!!!!
2007-02-07 10:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Badydoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you don't know the whole story between them. It's his choice who he is with and if he feels for her, there is nothing you can do about it. He may be desperate, but it's still his decision. Some fat/ugly people are the nicest people and what is on the outside does not matter as much as what is in the inside.
2007-02-07 10:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well is the real problem with her looks or the way she is treating your friend? If she is mistreating or abusing him in any way then you should be concerned, but unfortunately you cannot "make" him break up with her. He will do it eventually when he gets tired of her treatment. Now if the problem is just because you don't like the way she looks, that's really none of your business, he's attracted to what he's attracted to just like you have your personal preference, he does too.
2007-02-07 10:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by eggshell134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you like her, it only matters that he does. If he wants to see her, why should this bother you? If she is as bad as you say, sooner or later, he will walk away if he wants to.
Stop sweating it. Get your own girl and leave the two of them to figure their own relationship out.
By the way, being fat doesn't preclude people from having love relationships. It happens all the time.
2007-02-07 10:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your friend alone. He obviously sees something special in her even though you don't. Only the 2 people involved in the relationship really know what they see in each other. If you are a true friend you will lay off and support him. He sees past her outward appearance and has found something he likes in her. Let it go.
2007-02-07 10:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are shallow, and your friend is right when he says you know nothing about love. The real question here is why do you care so much, are you jealous? maybe that you are not in a loving relationship or perhaps jealous you friend has less time for you, maybe you have a crush on your friend.... I don't know, but you should figure that out so you can move on.
2007-02-07 10:07:04 · answer #11 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋