I really like this guy, and my friendd says that he likes me, but I am too scared to tell him how I feel. He works all the time, and doesn't get off till 11:30pm, and I can't see him that late b/c I havework at 6am. Please help!
2007-02-07 01:32:18 · 19 answers · asked by almost_gone07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He works from 4pm to around 11:30 or midnight. I just can't stay up that late b/c I have work from 6am to around 4pm. Please help!
2007-02-07 01:42:48 · update #1
Remember the words "love will find a way". If you both truly like each other then there has to be a half way point you can meet at. If he works more than a few hours a day he has to have a break at some point in time and it wouldn't be hard for you to find out when that is. Casually "pop up" some time during his break and say "hello" or something more inquisitive like "are you single, wanna go out"..........but you have to take the initiative or you may never know what could've been!!!
2007-02-15 01:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that if you both really like each other it wont matter if you tell him tonight or a couple days from now. Just go with your gut and ask him where your relationship stands and maybe he'll come out and say it - and if not, then maybe you could nudge the conversation along by saying you would like to be more than just friends... ?! Good luck!
2007-02-07 01:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by *Daisey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not hide your feelings because the timings of your work don't match. Try to observe, when that guy takes a break and try to talk to him.
Try to talk to him as and when he's available and dig into him and try to extend your relation. That ways, you'll be able to know more about each other and develop the possibility of a relationship. Subsequently, hit the iron when it's hot, I think you know what I mean.
2007-02-07 01:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ankur Jain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could show up at his work early and get a supervisor to give him a "letter" and you could express your feelings within the letter. You said that you are too scared to tell him how you feel and so this way you also would not have to talk to his face.
Best of luck!
2007-02-07 01:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia Aleka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once wrote "Lets go out sometime" on a guys windows on his car with white tape while he was at work...it was across all of his windows so he couldn't miss it. Then I wrote him a little letter and stuck it in his door with my number telling him I really want to hang out so call me so we can make plans. It worked... Im still with him and its been almost 2 years!!!!!
2007-02-07 01:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though he works 2nd shift he does have days off... stop by with a cup of coffee for him and ask him out on his next day off...
2007-02-15 01:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he works with the public.. just pay a visit to the place he works.. kinda flirt around a lil bit.. talk to him.. Small talk.. if he likes you, im sure you will know. slip him a number!
2007-02-07 01:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Nastassia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what time you get off cause if u don't get off earlier than he does then i think u should surprise him at work and try and tell him how u feel and just say wats on your mind.. try not to worry about it too much and just let watever happens happen.....
2007-02-07 01:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy_brown_eyes08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a love letter and hope for the best. Good luck!!
2007-02-15 01:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely he has a day off at sometime. find out when his next one is and go for it then. or you could write to him if you know where he lives, let him know your interested.
2007-02-14 23:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋