I just got robed by a few coloured guys. I phoned my fiance to tell him what happend and the only thing he could say to me was a swear word and then he just hung up in my ear... What sould i make of this? Doesn't he even care what happend to me? He didn't even ask if i'm ok... Just got cross because my cellphone got stolen and that's it... Please help...
2007-02-07 01:19:18 · 9 answers · asked by CinsTaylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And please, i don't need you *** holes calling me names.
2007-02-07 01:26:41 · update #1
Yes there is more to it. I was walking to the bank to deposit money. Was talking to my fiance on phone. when i hung up two guys came up to me with a knife and then demanded i give all i have!
2007-02-07 01:38:50 · update #2
the twizler dude is right your bf just wants to bust some heads he is pissed he will calm down and be more sensitive towards your needs just give him some time. He loves you and your not the only one that was assaulted that night he was as well. I would be pissed and if you called me and told me that you got robed and all they took was your cell phone. Your telling me that your ok because you didn't say I'm in the hospital I was robed and they took my cell phone. If you had been hurt that would have been the first thing out of your mouth. Unless the raped you then maybe not?? Anyway your boyfriend loves you he is just pissed and is trying to deal with someone doing that to you. Remember he wasn't there to protect you sooooo he was assaulted as well. Its just my opinion.
2007-02-07 01:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A normal person's reaction, even a casual acquaintance, would be to ask if you were okay. This guy's reaction is clearly that of someone who doesn't have the regard for you that the average stranger would. It sounds as though, if you remain with the person, that things will not end well for you.
Forget this guy is your fiance. Forget that he's even a guy. Imaging this is just one of your friends your talking about. You call this friend because you are scared, you need someone to talk to you. Something traumatic has just happened. She yells at you and hangs up the phone. Is this someone you'd keep as a friend? Most people would not, although many would tolerate this kind of behavior thinking, "Well, if I love this person then...." Turn it around, "If this person loved me...." he wouldn't yell and hang up on when you called him to tell him you've just been robbed.
2007-02-07 09:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Greg H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm sorry that you were robbed and are ok. It seems like your fiance really isn't the one for you. If he cared, he would check on your wellbeing first rather than materialistic things. Hypothetically, if the two of you get married and then a natural disaster destroys your home, he would probably care more about the house rather than how you were. I would recommend talking with him or dumping him. This is not a good sign for the future.
2007-02-07 10:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you doin with the black guys in the first place? I think you got what you deserved. You should call round to your fiance and beg for forgiveness for cheating on him with a group of Black men
2007-02-07 09:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sean D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he's more interested in materialistic things than you and your health and safety. This is a classic example of what a selfish-self-centered as shole is.
Time to kick this jerk to the curb and find a real man who truly cares about his woman.
2007-02-07 09:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off just call your phone and figure out where it is
2007-02-07 09:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there has got to be more to the story...
2007-02-07 09:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pick bad company including"fiance".
2007-02-07 09:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost............. .S.M.F
2007-02-07 09:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jackal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋