well maybe not love. but shes always on my mind and i hate it....any ideas guys? :)
2007-02-07 01:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you mean, 3 years ago I just broke up with a girlfriend and the first 3 monthes were MISERABLE! I was sad all the time, it's like your daily routine has been changed am I right? Yeah, and sometimes you just wanna call her and talk to her but you know it's pointless because it wasn't meant to be. It sucks *** I know. The one thing I suggest you do is, make new friends at school, if not new friends become better friends with your friends. Try to join clubs, teams, etc. Pick up on sports or lifting weights to take your mind off of her. What I did was, well it was exactly what I said to you. You're probably feeling that it's the end of the world, and you'll never stop "loving" or thinking about her. But trust me when I tell you this, if you stop thinking about her then your feelings for her will change as well. Try talking to other girls about your feelings, not to be stereotypical but girls loveeeeeeee these kind of conversations haha, it could also lure girls in on your rebound? Try looking near your circle of friends, girls that are single and just ask them to go out for dinner or a movie one night and tell them it's just for fun, nothing serious. If you two have a good time, ask her out again..etc, make your move, theres no point in living life in the past. You know what I mean? It was tough for me but as soon as I started meeting new girls, pffft. screw my ex!
Take that philosophy...:) and you will prosper.
2007-02-07 01:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by pokeralchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs hard trust me. My ex gf cheated on me and she was my first love and I thought about her all the time after the breakup. I mean I was mad and upset, but feelings of love don't go away in a night or week.
Even to this day there are times when i think about her. It takes time, I realize that as time has gone on, my thoughts about her have significantly decreased and while there is still some fondness, (I don't think you can ever really forget your first love no matter what) I realize that moving on is vital.
My suggestion is just take your time, hang out with friends. Its hard to realize that there is life after the relationship I know. I struggled for a while and while I am not with anyone currently, you actually learn a lot from how the relationship ended and can use that information to make future relationships better.
Be strong. You will get through it.
2007-02-07 01:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love her why not be with her? say she loves you too. i mean what is the worst thing that could happen you two be together and get married or something? if you love someone for three years and tried hard to forget and you can't then there will always be something there. TELL HER. stop being in love with someone either works three ways. 1. stop everything that reminds you of her (but i wouldn't go that crazy) 2. you actually find someone who makes you realize it's the past and it's going to stay that way. 3. you realize that you need to tell her how you feel!!! good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-05-24 02:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but this is the thing I don't want to lose her the love that I have for this woman is that deep but everytime that I lie to her I can myself getting smaller and smaller and ect but I remember when we first met she was the woman that I have been dreaming of but look at us now we stay fighting about stupid **** shes texting other men it just hurts you to the core that you would do almost anything in the world to fix your relationship because you are tired of seeing the next man and woman happy but the thing is that I cheated on her for her godsister didn't know that was gone come gaining back on me then a couple months later she thought that I had a rumor going around the school saying that I did something that I know that I didn't do but the thing is that I wish that we can just talk it out.
2015-12-08 11:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda hard, and trust me if she's always on your mind, then yeah you do love her whether you want to admit it or not, the best thing to do is see if you can get some closure, that will help tremendously, call her, if possible, and tell her that you just want to get some things straightened out before you get on with your life.
2007-02-07 01:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay my friend is going thriugh this too so i wiiill tell you the truth!!! you cant stop loving someone i mean love is a emotion and you cant stop that it is easy to say it but it is hard i mean no matter how hard you try you will have to wait till the emotion is ready wirting i ♥ someone else 100 times doent help at alall like i said love is a feeeling that cant be stopped till ITS ready
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2007-02-07 02:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lyssalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I know exactly how you feel. My ex-boyfriend dumped me for another woman, the son of a f_____ b_____. I just try to move on and try to forget about him and I'm currently trying to find another boyfirend. I hope that you will find another girlfriend.
2007-02-07 01:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** some other bitches. especially the hot ones with big boobs. do it with 3 or 4 diff. women.. maybe that'll help. you know women want 2 things, a big dick and money.. so yeah **** their brains out, they beg for it, so we should smack the **** out of them..and **** them hard so that they'll never forget us. kapeesh
2007-02-07 01:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might sound cliche...but concentrate on other things... try making a list of all her negative points...wud help u in forgetting her
2007-02-07 01:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by niks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, a hobby, a job......keep busy!!!
2007-02-07 02:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tighty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋