I really NEED your advice, badly, please!? what am I supposed 2 do?help?

Question

Here's the story of my life...
I used to be a fat kid as long as I remember my self, not that I've been severely FAT, but let's say really big-boned. I hated when smb used to make fun of me cause of it, God, no one knows how much tears I've cried cause of it
and at the age of 15 I took control of myself and went on a diet , first I refused to eat all that tasty food that I used 2, u know. I started doing dancing, a lot of exercising, Later, in a 3 months I went on vegetarian diet and refused 2 eat any animal food, not even eggs and diary
Basically I ate lots of beans, oatmeal, fruits,veggies, juices stuff like that
I felt my self great! I was so inspired, I started 2 wear all those close that I wanted , I felt myself sooo sexy and cute
I started dating a lot of guys that I dreamed of, they thought that I look awesome and it was true, Soon I was getting those cute curves showing up instead of fat that covered it earlier
I liked watching all those rnb and hip-hop videos

they inspired me 2 loose more weight to look more like those sexy shorties
Basically, I have lost 65 pounds in 10 months and felt GREAT!
then I've graduated from high school and went to college in other city far from home and.....
I really expected college to be much different
school was so easy in comparison with college I got soooo stressed
I hated everything missed my family, friends, and Istarted not really give a damn about what I eat , what I look like
for 6 months I gained back already 30 pounds! it's horrible
but I can't find all that inspiration all that power I had 2 go back on diet
I feel so useless and ugly
like all my life is over! damn it!
I always ask myself Where's that Stacy I've used 2 know before, strong, confident, sexy?? where the hell is she??
Why life is so unfair?? I achieved what I always wanted and NOW I lost it!! :(((
HELP please
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Answer 1

Congratulations on your weight loss success but what did you need help with...did i miss the question part.

Answer 2

U need to get a hold of yourself- go back on the diet cos it sound like ur getting really depressed.
If ur so proud that u've lost the weight y wud u want to put it back on. try regular exercise not only will u lose the weight u just gained it can act as a release form all u r feeling- and last of all talk 2 sum1 if ur miserable get it off ur chest! Best of luck!

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel! I have never been a small girl and I got so dang sick and tired of yoyo dieting and between me and my friend I think we have tried everything you can think of! In comes Herbalife. You will not believe how great you feel and how when your body is being taken care of your weight comes off.
The plan I have is have a chocolate shake or slice of chocolate pie for 2 meals a day, then for the third meal I can have whatever I want! But what’s cool is I crave salads and stuff instead of junk food….which is good since I am a person that eats when bored, depressed or mad!
Here’s where the extra help comes in: I take tablets three times a day that is custom planned for my body and diet plan. Everything on this plan is all natural so I don’t have to worry about putting strange dieting chemicals in my body that can have dangerous side effects. Not to mention my free coach that comes with it! I have not only lost 20 pounds in a month and half but also a LOT of inches! And the energy level is outrageous! Even though I hate exercising I have found energy to do hobbies like rollerblading, ice-skating and riding a bike again!
I love sharing this with everyone I know so they can feel as good as I do. If you are serious about losing weight and want me to help, just let me know! Good luck!
~JoAnn

Answer 4

Dumbo's who don't see the question in her story?? Well obviously you are or were not happy in your new situation. All the stress and unhappyness then causes u to do something u like to do, to forget that stress. And that is unhealthy eating. Many people go through those phases in life, when they are happy and balanced they don't need bad food to make them happy and they also have discipline. Now u don't like ur life and as a result u don't have discipline and eat to make urself happy (kind of substitute).

Try to get your life back in order. Try to find out what makes u unhappy, school, surroundings, lack of friends, away from family etc or are there other reasons? U should find out the reasons and then u can try to do something about them. Also try to stop eating bad cos u are getting into a vicious circle where one thing strenghthens the other thing (feel unhappy so go eat a lot and stop exercise and as a result feel even worse and eat more again etc)

Take ur life back and show some willpower. In the meantime try to find out the problems and do something abou them. Maybe even get out of that university.

Answer 5

What's the problem...sound like you got waht you wanted.

Answer 6

okay ya lost me here kiddo..what is ur question?

Answer 7

uh.. is there question buried in there somewhere?... congrats on the Curves... but I don't know what you need help with.

Answer 8

http://choosediet.blogspot.com/

Answer 9

I will answer that question for you.

Now what is it ?