What should i do if my mom and I keep getting into fights ... how should it stop?

Answer 1

For one u and ur mom should not b fighting u guys should b like best friends. If u feel that u guys r about 2 get into a fight then u need 2 say hey mom can we please just try 2 talk instead of always fighting. U need 2 let her know that u do not always want 2 keep on fighting with her because u love her. U need 2 show her how mature u r. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

First of all it's kind of normal for mother and daughter to fight, but if it's everyday then you have a problem. Maybe your mom is going through a lot of stress at work or maybe even at home and you can't notice. Also if you are becoming a teenager, that may be kind of hard on your mom. Your style is going to change a lot and you might feel like you want to be more independent and want to do more things with your friends and probably for your mom that's not so easy to handle. Try to take some time and as boring or old fashioned this sounds make some mother-daughter time. Bake cookies and watch movies, go to the movies, or the mall, and tell her whats on your mind. But say it out loud in front of the mirror first then to your mom. Sometimes when you hear something out loud fot the first time it makes some sense so by the second time you are good to go.

Answer 3

First of all, you are being disrespectful to your Mother,and second of all is the way you act with her, is her, fault for the upbringing, she gave you? You do not say how old you are, but I am guessing you are a Teenager, so, by now you should know that a Parent no matter how they treat you, other than being abusing, should be respected above all else. If she shouts at you, and you shout back to her, you will never end any quarrel that arouses between you and her. There must be a reason as to why, you and her quarrel a lot, if it's her fault when she is calm, have a talk with her, and tell her that if she feels that you are always looking for a quarrel, you will try and abide by her wishes, and if it's your Mother's fault, than she should apologize to you and that both of you will be able from then on, to try and appease any situation that arises. I hope this words would help to give you an idea as to why, you two, are always arguing.

Answer 4

We have the same situation. Sometimes I also cant understand my parents. I feel so bad when we have an argument because even when it only starts from a simple sentence, even a joke, My mother takes it seriously. Then it becomes a big matter and we begin to quarrel. sometimes I think my mom's pride is too high because she doesn't want to admit that she's wrong.... sometimes, when Im just telling them the truth or the things I observed about our family or the things I want them to know, it becomes a big argument. So what I do now is I trying to control myself from talking too much even though I want to say something in my side. I think Its better to be away from it because when there was a time when I and gave in, I and my mom just had a misunderstanding. It just became a big argument that ended to nothing. Goodluck to you. Just avoid arguments and if ever it happens, just be careful of what you say because some parents dont understand it well.. and just have some time alone to think or tell a friend. You know, we are just at the same situation. I wanted to discuss mine with someone before.. but I just asked help at the internet. Same with you..

Answer 5

Play the listening game....let her go first and she can start by saying anything she likes to you....you listen and after she is done it's your turn......after a session of this, you may want to go over the feelings you have of each topic you both had to voice! Goodluck to you both!

Answer 6

Just walk away from her and give both of you a chance to cool down.

Answer 7

try to show,more respect,for your mom