i have gotten some but not a lot!!!!!!!! He is everything to me. in some ways i am too shy to tell him but sometimes i think "just go and ask him out" the thing is he is too shy and i don't know what his reaction will be.
so what should i do? i need REAL advice not sillyness! THANKS!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 01:03:38 · 3 answers · asked by Stevie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tough one!...the right thing would just be go talk to him about another thing like ..hey have you heard about bla bla bla. and after a few minutes when yur both a little more comfortable just lay it out there dont be deep or emotional just say hey u wanna go out and do bla bla with me i think your a pretty cool guy? and if he is shy but likes you theres no way he's gonna say NO! and if he says NO u can quit worrying about it and say oh well then at least u wont be wondering for years if there coulda been
somthing (like ME i think back on so many times i just thought nooo im not gonna walk up2 her, now i always wonder if i just woulda walked up been myself and said hey whats up?
Do it!!! i bet u end up with a date!
i always repeat this to myself if im about to meet someone:
Theres a 100% garuntee u WONT get whatever it is you desire if u never ever ASK 4 it!
....that said, all this is the easy part its great to type it up and plan it out and get advice and alla the feel good part (walking up and talking to him is the hard part)
im really shy too and i know overcoming that fear and anxiety and walking up to somebody and break the ice..ugh..its scary as hell!
but almost every time ive done it i was sooo relieved! even if if i got blown off or whatever i felt better inside that i didnt chiken out!....and im 32 and i still chicken out sometimes but most times after were talking for just a few sentences i end up thinking "okaaay this isnt so baad they are just a regular ole person like me" at very worst i end up with a lame excuse and a but lets be friends and we promise to call bla bla c ya bye bye and i see them for years BUT i have ended up with several of the same girls who blew me off way back then!! and i ALMOST didnt even giv them a chance to blo me off cause i was to shy all those years ago and NOW were dating!! hmm always better to ask 4 what u want even if u get a no orrr it cums bak 10years later! its tru!
good luck ok!
2007-02-07 02:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already developed a friendship with him, just slowly take it a tad further. Get a little closer to him, a little more personal. A subtle touch here and there will test the grounds for you. If he responds, go from there. If he doesn't, maybe it's just not there for him. If he's shy, be prepared to be patient with the response time, but it shouldn't take long for you to figure it out.
2007-02-07 09:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please learn how to spell. LOVE is a simple word to spell
2007-02-07 09:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋