I have been seeing this guy for over 8 months now, and I realized that I have really strong feelings for him. It started as something very casual and light, and he cares about me and he treats me well. I am moving away for a job in August, and he and I both don't want to do long distance--so it is a relationship that will end sooner or later--should I make the best of it and make it last, or break up with him today? My heart tells me that I should make the best of it--because it would hurt me more to not be with him-- but my head tells me that I should break it off right now before I get too deep and can't get out without being hurt deeply. Which should I follow, my head or my heart? He suggested, after talking about it last night, that it may be best to see each other less. What would that do to our relationship? If we take "time off " or "see each other less" I can only see myself wondering why I am in this relationship with him in the first place. I am so miserable. Help.
2007-02-07 01:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by ohsoconfused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you care more for your relationship or the belief that you dont want to "do" a long distance relationship???
if you want to be together you will find a way either you move closer or he changes jobs --- it sounds like the start of something interesting for both of you so why give it up so easily???
to me having a break is giving up to make it work you need to resolve problems --- best wishes to you both
2007-02-07 01:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are wondering why you are in the relationship. Get out of it cause in the long run you are only going to hurt yourself. I wish you luck. Always go with your first mind.
2007-02-07 01:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..
if the guy actually sugg. to see each other less.. probably he just wans to get out of tis relationship.
i had previously dated a guy & we went out for like 2 wks then he suddenly told me to stay as frenz.. in other words we shdn go out anymore & we ended our relationship
he was quite gd looking & i thought we had it going on.. but he doesn wan to cont' going out anymore.. though it was heartbreaking for awhile i respected his decisions & i had the chance to meet with someone else better : )
2007-02-07 01:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by zmichanez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw..im in a similar situation...very similar..you can talk to me if you want thru IM.
Good Luck.
i say follow your heart tho...
2007-02-07 01:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋