i love him so much we have a child not his but her real father doent want her. she thinks of him like her father. and i know everything is not perfect but i believe we can make it. i have lied he has lied we have alot of past issues.what can i do ? please help . i love him so much he told me he doesnt love me anymore but i know he does. he has been talking to this girl that doesnt even know me and he thinks everything she says is true do you have any ideas? please help
2007-02-07 00:51:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and he loves you things will work themselves out. However I'm questioning what is up with all the lies? A relationship that based on lies is never solid and will never be solid. You need to at least try and talk to him and if he's not willing to do so then you need to let the relationship go. He's not obligated to you and unfortunately he doesn't have to be there for your child either. You can ask him to be since she's the only father she knows. I wish you the best. Hope for the best but in this case be prepared for the worse.
2007-02-07 01:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being single. if he really loves you then he'll be back. just what ever you do, do not try to " talk him" into having a relationship. no crying, no begging, no calling. this will only make you look pathetic in his eyes and yours. Leave him alone, show him that you can have a life with out him. If you guys get back together and decide to work out your issuses than good. If you guys decide that you happier apart, than that's fine tooo. But either way you would end up with your didgnity and great stories to tell about how great " the single life" was. You and your child will be fine. You are a family in yourself, don't let a guy break that up.
I wish you luck, God bless.
2007-02-07 09:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has told you that he doesn't love you anymore, so maybe he doesn't. This doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, he just doesn't love you anymore. Saying you know he still does is just denial on your part. If he is talking to another girl, he seems to have moved on. None of this is easy to take, but it happens and you need to deal with it. If you both have lied to each other the trust is gone.
2007-02-07 08:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him for a few days and dont give much importance to him. He will come back.
2007-02-07 08:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce?
2007-02-07 08:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by HahaYou'rePwned! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋