2007-02-07 00:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
My daughter is 19 months old and she has real little rages - just screams and shakes and is so angry at things. I think they are learning their emotions as she has only just started doing it and I've seen other children the same age start to do it. There's really nothing you can do, I just tell her firmly that that is naughty and try and help her sort herself out - ie if she is frustrated playing with a toy or something. Then she's fine. It's started to happen less, so give it a go. It's important not to show anger back though, just be firm and look them in the eye. They understand a lot more than they let on!
2007-02-07 00:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by JoJi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because they cannot communicate very well at this age. They do have tantrums but this is a battle of wits. If they tantrum because they want something you will not allow, such as they wish to touch the fire, ignore it. The child comes to learn that it is not getting attention by tantruming and soon stops. You have to discern why he is getting angry though. Make sure you are loving him and try to understand what he wants. Don't ever get in an arguement situation with a child, obviously we always win because we are older/bigger and that's not fair.
2007-02-07 14:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Angelfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body gives you so much advice, and all of its different, but you have got to do what you feel is right. I personally went to the library and borrowed some books on child rearing/terrible twos. It maybe worth a look...just remember all mums have been there and understand ur not alone!!
2007-02-07 16:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by EMMAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the "Terrible Twos" doesn't start at age 2... this is when they are starting to become rebellious and want to become a little more independant. Try to become more involved with them. i.e. Ask them to pick up things with you, etc. Good luck.
2007-02-07 08:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by spark the one, two, three 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 2 year old used to get like that, it is just a phase. I found that completely ignoring him worked as if you try to communicate with them they just get more angry.
2007-02-07 09:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you can knock the teen out and while the teen is in a coma you can replace the center of the brain with a micro-chip that obeys you and only you. it all depends on how you treat the teen's problems you douche bag.
2007-02-07 08:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
you could try to teach you 17 month its wrong to be bad
2007-02-07 08:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will out-do it as she grows older.
2007-02-07 08:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋