i have a complicated situation with the girl whom i love . well she left me and when to another man to marry him . and now she always send me messages telling me that she married that man to be sure that her love towards him has dissappeared and that she wont think about him in the future when we will be married me and her .
knowing that i love her so much .
we are not together for 8 months till now , and i still love her so much . and she's coming back to the country where i live soon .
what should i do ?????????????
can i forgive her ???
take consideration when u answer me that i still love her so much .
2007-02-07 00:22:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when it comes to love, tis against all odds.... Ü yes since you do love her so much, then accept her still.. wow... kudos to you... this is so rare that a guy like you would still accept her even though she has hurt you so bad... now that's what i call unconditional love....Ü
2007-02-07 00:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her is wrong word, forget her is right... 8 months is a lot of time, by this time both of you should have adjusted to the changed situation. You are crazy to be still loving that girl. Destiny has chosen different paths, why don't you two understand this. if you re-unite it would ruin a third life, total 3 lifes. Do not believe the girl, she is a big cheat. Find a girl who really loves you, and start life afresh...
2007-02-07 08:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by gentle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don,t ! She has played with your heart and emotions and has hurt you very bad ! Nobody marries somebody to be clear about their feelings towards the other person! you have been played with very bad ! Find a nice girl in your Country that loves you as the person you are , Life is to short to be playing these hurtful games
2007-02-07 08:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, forgive her. Love does as love wants, so she is coming back to you- cherish every moment you have with her. I made that mistake once. Not fun. But wait those eight months, and if this turns out to be a trick, then find another love. Be aware, though, if she dosen't get a proper divorce, it is counted as an affair and you could be sued.
2007-02-07 08:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by serenityfan76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it a chance
but i guess u might want to really find out why she left u to marry the other chap in the first place.
was it bcos she did not know what she want?
or she had some 'thoughts' about what an ideal hubby/marriage is but when she married him she found out it was not what she wanted.
if u both marry, do try to see if she is true to it and u
2007-02-07 08:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there's an expression "wake up and smell the coffee" that i think is appropriate here. Could you imagine doing to her what she has done to you? Leaving her, marrying some 'other' girl, sleeping with that other girl etc etc I think not.
Run for the hills laddy!
NO.
2007-02-07 08:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by hipstar_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do what ever you want. cause, we dont know her like you do and we dont know how your love was to her, like some people say they love that person but then they fight all the time. so think they love that person but the go and find someone eles cause there board.so we cant really choose the right answer for you. your heart has to do that.hope everything works out for the best.
2007-02-07 08:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she married they u will make her divorce because of u... just put the love in your pocket and act like smart man... OK ... don't do any problem.. even u love her do u think u both can make a happy family or she will leave u because of someone else?
2007-02-07 08:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Love and if you can forgive her then thats all that matters. Only you can decide to forgive her. It maybe hard but if you and she really loves each other then you should beable to overcome this fear you have.
2007-02-07 08:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes forgive her for everything! love doesn't mean n e thing unless you have someone to share it with
2007-02-07 08:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by N3W Y0RKZ B@Bii GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋