i need lotz of help!!!?

Question

i have had sex with my bf 4 a few mths now not real sex he never went inside me bt we don use protection
we really wanna stop (both) coz we feel real guilty n it against our traditions n religion !!!
we tried 100s of times but a kiss turns to gettin sexual n we go back to square 1
am only 16 n hes just 18 we r still in skol din even go uni yet it
we would gladly get married if it wasnt 4 our parents who would refuse coz we r 4rm different countries
n my parents don know anything bout this relationship
sumtimes they suspect but thats about it
if i tell my parents they would take 4rm me all means of communication wit him including skol n i hate studying at home
so thats my story n this is my qs up to the point
1-how to stop gettin sexual wit my bf without stopping being loving n sweet aka holding hands,huging,kissing
2- how to end up with my boyfriend (married) and liv with him
3- how do tell my parents that i am in a relationship witout gettin tortured
am real scared pls help

Answer 1

1. Do not put yourself alone with your boyfriend from now on - always make sure you're in a crowded environment or with other people. The drive to reproduce is a powerful, powerful human emotion. Your willpower alone will not be enough.
2. You're too young to be worrying about this subject. You need to concentrate on what you want to do with yourself - careerwise - after high school. Marriage and family can come later. Education and a career path should be your main focus.
3. Simply tell your parents. If you're "mature" enough to have sex, you're mature enough to take on adult responsibilities and that includes being honest and open with those you love (including your parents).

Answer 2

At 16, you need to take it slow. right now your parents are not going to agree, you being with anyone. If you really love your boy friend, then the two of you, have to agree to not put your self, in a position, where you will do anything, that one day you both will regret, what you do have to do is concentrate on school, and once the parents see that you are trying, and keep the lines of communication open between the two of you, and one day when you both are old enough you can be together!

Answer 3

1. avoid places where you 2 will be alone. hang out with friends, develop common friends and common activities for you to be creative without being sexual.

2. you may be rushing into things you might regret later on. since you are under your parents, you have to consider them. are you financially capable of getting married and starting a family of your own? if not, then enjoy your youth. marriage can wait while you work on building a stronger relationship with your bf.

3. the longer you hide the relationship, the longer you'll suffer. tell them now and face the problem now than later when you are too deeply involved and wouldn't care who you hurt in the process. you may start by saying you want to see somebody and admit that you are afraid they might disapprove. from there, see how they would react. take it one step at a time. show them you are responsible and capable of making mature decisions.

Answer 4

Being loving unnecessarily a must for physical contact. The more u hold not to touch each other, the more u will be in love. Try it.