I want to please him so he won't get bored but at the same time I still want to wait. we've been waiting for 8 months. I'm scared thta he might leave me because I might say no. what should I do? I love my Manny
2007-02-06 23:58:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a man really loves you, then he will definitely wait for you. Because love is not about you guys getting down. It is about you two loving to be with each other with out any other incentive. I will tell you something suprising. I belive love is when you enjoy being with someone even if that person is saying something that can upset you.(at least that is the way I see it).
Just tell him how you exactly feel about him and also how it is important to you not to have *** at this time. Because usually friends can put pressure on a man to do things he actually doesn't want to do. So be patient with him and try to make him understand.
Your fear that he will leave because you don't want to do it now may actually make you do it. But it is not actually like that. He may leave you even if you are doing at it. I know many girls getting really hurt because they think letting him have it may keep him and at the end of the day when he leaves, the heart is shattered like china!
hope this helps!
2007-02-07 00:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fitsum A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting until you're ready is the only way to go. Having sex to satisfy someone else will only leave you feeling used and unloved. Wait until your mind and heart tells you it's right. Be sure to discuss your feelings with Manny, if he doesn't understand then Manny is not the quality man you think he is. Good Luck
2007-02-07 08:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Playfull 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. well waiting would be good. But based on your question, it seems to me that u do really love manny and it feels like u wanna do it, but ur scared so u want some moral support. anyways, making him wait alone to prove his love might sound boring, but some says its worth it, But for me, well, since your scared that he might leave u if u will refuse, i suggest you other ways to satisfy him without compromising yourself that much. You do love him, and you dont want him to be bored, but even if you got carried away by your emotions and give in, leave something for yourself.Never give 100% of You to someone which u think will leave u just because of saying no.
2007-02-07 08:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then without thinking much , just go ahead and spend leisure time with him after taking all the necessary precautions at this age . Let him feel your soft heart and body to remain with you for ever .
2007-02-07 08:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sure, the answer is definately no. If he is the kind of guy who may get bored with you without sex, think about that. Is that what you want? You are trying to please Manny, and not thinking about yourself. Wait longer. You deserve it.
2007-02-07 08:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Lear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guy ask like that to proof that you love him...Say no about he want dont scared if he might leave you. It means he did not love you. Because if the guy who really like you he coudnt force you what he likes....
2007-02-07 08:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by edsky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he leaves you because you say no....you didn't need him and he doesn't respect you. Let him know how you feel but don't be pressured to do what you don't want to!
2007-02-07 08:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u want to have sex with Manny becuz u want to please him,did i get u right?
Y wont he please u by not having sex with u cuz u dont want 2.
there r things worth sacrifsing 4 & this my luv is not one of them.
2007-02-07 08:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months?! dont put him through that hell! if u wanna be a good girlfriend, then have sex wit him!
2007-02-07 16:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait until u are ready. if he really cares and understands u, i think he will respect your decision until u are ready.
2007-02-07 08:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋