Would you say this bloke is a pervert. My friend confided in me things I have never heard of before and I dont know how to advise her. Her boyf expects sex from her even if he has been horrible and they have fallen out and if she says no he will walk out and sulk get angry. after a recent argument he came back with a pot of nivea and asked for hand treatment if you know what I mean. What is wrong with this guy? no appologises or anything. I dont know what to say to advise her other than leave.
2007-02-06 23:44:35 · 14 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say that he is a pervert... I WOULD say that he is an abusive rectum and she needs to get rid of him
2007-02-06 23:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have apologized! but cumon now whats wrong with the "hand treatment" anyway? honestly what else was she doing with that hand for a few minutes that was sooo important?,,,,,well did she do it? if not she should have...how can u hav a loving caring mature relationship if yur partner doesent even wanna shut up for a bit and "giv a helping hand" if not 4 her partner, do it 4 little the poor little guy trapped in underwear who really needs her rights then..u know "the bald headed champ" im sure he likes her and it hurts him when she ignores him like that...even if she would get mad and dump the whole bottle of lotion on him then "beat him like he owes her money, then beat him some more" even tho he's going 2 puke i bet he would luv the attention!! its the little things like sexual favors learning what SSHHHH means and not nagging about a guys whereabouts if he dissapears for the night that really mean so much to a guy more women should learn to be a little more sensitive to that!...i mean isnt sex the whole pupose of putting up with a gf in the first place? ...oh yea house cleaning too!. ...i agree tho, he should apologize if he messed up and if he is horrible DUMP his butt!!
theres still a few caring sensitive romantics out there like meee!!
2007-02-07 00:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sounds of it she is probably too young to be sexually active in the first place so make sure she knows she can talk to her doctor about her concerns also get advice on safe sex practices. about the b/f -- he is nothing but an immature bully and will most likely always be that way. i would advise my friend to flush that turd out of her life before he ruins it
2007-02-07 00:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by not chey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you, i does not attempt that!!! i've got in no way ever heard of that, and it will probable ruin your hair, not restoration it!!! yet once you have chop up ends, hair grows slower, so that's advisable to trim it a inch or so and that would desire to definitely help it strengthen speedier.
2016-09-28 13:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like sex is more important to your friend's boyfriend than your friend is. That doesn't make him a pervert, it just makes him a jerk. I would advise her to find someone better too.
2007-02-06 23:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds as if he is on a road to future serious abuse. I think this relationship is going to be headed down a dark and very unhealthy path. Tell her to get out quick.
2007-02-06 23:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with him. Guys want sex and most will get it whenever they can, as easily as they can.
If your friend is that easy and will spread as easily as melted butter, I say there's something wrong with her. Tell her to say NO for once.
...m0uthpiece...
2007-02-06 23:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she can tell him his pleading for sex is not sexy.. and is not a turn on..
if he's he wants some loving he has to make sure shes in the mood.... and hes going about it in the wrong way
2007-02-06 23:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is used to running things - I don't think he's a perv tho.
2007-02-07 01:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a pervert and you and your friend should stay away from him.
2007-02-06 23:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋