As we know that there may be different in the needs of sex of a husband & wife and it is also true that every body suggesting after marriage relation with the other gal friend etc is not a good thing. so now suppose wife want sex only once in 5-7 days but the husband need daily. In this sititution what should be done. Your serious comments plz
2007-02-06 23:33:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try and talk to your wife about your needs. Maybe try a little romance to encourage her or get her in the mood.
2007-02-06 23:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when does anyone "need" sex daily? Separate want from need. Having said that, sex is very important to the marital relationship and it should be encouraged on a regular basis.
Get help now, talk with your wife about this, do not pressure her into "servicing" your wants, but do be frank that sexual intimacy is an important anchor in the marriage. Find out why she doesn't seem to be interested and begin solving that problem.
Do not use your "want" as an excuse to go outside the marriage bonds. It will ruin everything.
2007-02-07 07:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the situation between you guys it is a Little bit difficult, there may be tensions pressures etc. Try to create a nice atmosphere be honest with her open your heart and talk to her about everything it is on your heart. Honesty is the best Marriage is not an easy thing for Ladies so help her show her that life with you it is good and that you care. In my opinion it helps a lot to talk and she will feel better when she will see you are opened to everything. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 07:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell ya. It gets worse as time goes on. 5-7 days will turn into once or if lucky twice a month. The only thing I can suggest is masturbation. It gets boring but at least you won't be out cheating on your wife. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 07:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give her a reason to want to have sex or make love. I'm not married but i went trough a period like that i was always up for sex and my bf says there's more to the relationship than just sex i didn't know that but i found that it is true we started doing things spending time together showing our love in different ways and i love it we kinda stopped having sex for awhile and it bothered him we talked about it and we have sex much more now but still doing other stuff together.
Talk to your wife and see if there is a reason why she limits the sex. good luck
2007-02-07 07:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sex" is two bodies, slapping together. I order to get satisfaction. One gets control of the other. And it goes for either side. If the two are, "Making Love". Then it's gonna be special, no matter how many times it happens. It's gonna be a show of Emotion. Which that act has been forgotten to be. It'a al labout Emotion. Not Control! Both of you will find that you'll enjoy it more. When you "feel" the Love. Instead of expecting it!
2007-02-07 07:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you thought marriage was going to be easy? If you believed that you truly loved her when you stood next to her and took her for your wife, then you love her the way she is, not the way you want to make her. This works both ways. You need to talk to her and hear her. She needs to do the same. This is just one of the countless things you both need to work on. It will continue the rest of your lives. If you need to go to counseling, then go. You both will need to compromise. You have probably forgot the romance. She has probably forgot the passion. But luckily, we can remember. Good luck.
2007-02-07 07:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by dad94513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
have you spoke to her about your needs.have you and she had a really good talk about how you feel about this, try and make some kind of gentle hints to her, help her out around house to make her work load lighter, find out if she is stressed about something, there are so many things that could be wrong with her. maybe she thinks that you are not that interested in her any more. has she put on weight and is ashamed of it, has she had a child lately that would make her not want to be with you. has she gotten a job that is stressing her out or maybe she has a problem with something that she can not resolve and doesn't know how to tell you.
2007-02-07 07:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your wife...she should be fulfilling your needs as well as you hers....so i suppose if you were to look for fulfilment outside the marriage she only has herself to blame.
2007-02-07 07:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 time a week man i have it 3 days out of the week with my husband..anyway..... maybe your not that good anymore or maybe u never was..... why dont u just tell her u want to up it up a bit..she should understand or maybe shes just not the sex type.......
2007-02-07 07:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋