i had a date to the cinema wiz a girl then the pub for a drink. i gave her a rose. she really liked it. in the pub, i told her about my craziness about a girl, to tease her i asked her what should i do about that. first she replied 'TELL HER that you like her' then wiz a big smile she replied ' No don't tell her' thus i draw her attention that she's that special person that i like. but she didn't answer anything. she felt really shy.'head down' the subject was changed until i asked her again wat she think. still no reply. we had a real nice time together chatting. but again no answer. i didn't want to rush by trying to kiss her. SO ADVICE ME. wat do u think she's thinking about me. does she like me? AND WAT SHOULD I DO NEXT?
2007-02-06 23:31:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look mate, from the sound of it she probably thinks you were asking her opinion on ANOTHER girl so its no surprise she was quiet. You need to tell her how you feel before you lose her.
2007-02-06 23:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well am kinda goin thru the same thing, i told this guy who ive only known a few weeks i liked him he said he liked me then i started coming on too strong, and by the sound of it so where you, i think all of what you did was far 2 extreme for a first date, u probably put her off, but dont worry u can still get her back i mean she obviously likes you otherwise why would she have agreed to go on a date with you, girls like it when a guy isnt too full on, leave a little 2 the imagination, you like her yes but dont tell her all that on the first date, just drop subtle hints, well id suggest you leave it, no cantact for 3 days, make her wonder where u are etc, then after 3 days text her just a casual text ask her if shes ok what shes been up to, NO kiss at the end! then jus casually text for a few ays then try and arrange another date, if she agrees dont be as full on, it can seem needy and off putting to a girl, just b yourself yes you like her but dont tell her all this so early on, just get to know each other, enjoy being in her company and see what happens, good luck.
2007-02-07 07:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by dashadowgirl2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time, don't ask a girl about another girl. I do not blame her, for not answering you. Now you need to start all over, and tell her, that you was trying to get her to talk, so now just, ask questions, about her, how she is feeling, what she likes. Where does she see her self in 5 years from now, what are some goals she is setting? and so on!
2007-02-07 07:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must of liked u or else she wudnt of said yea 2a date!
some advice me mom gave me some time back!
dont rush into things
be respectfull 2 girls
never do anything that u wud be ashamed of telling me
go with the flow / dont think 2 much
and finally
"never try to work out whats going on in a womans brain or what she is thinkin because i'm ya mom & woman and i dont know what's going on in my brain, so how the hell are u suposed2!"
Aint moms great!
There ya go hope that helps
but remeber to strike whilst the iron is hot
2007-02-07 07:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you see her, you give her another rose and tell her about this craziness you have for this girl...that way..she'll either respond to you or she'll try to run away when she sees you. So, one day, you give her this rose and you say to this girl..."I gave you this rose, so you can give it to the guy you have a craziness over..."
Maybe she is the quiet type, who likes for you to show this craziness for this girl. Wait for her to kiss you, or to show that she wants you to kiss her...that way, it is so much sweeter and natural.
2007-02-07 07:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to reflect the siatuation. Send her a large bunch of flowers with a message on a card or a gift. Show her that you really care about her.
2007-02-07 07:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by gery_encycle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her indirectly and ask for another date- you will then get an idea of any possible future.
2007-02-07 07:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by misterviv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you people speak english? Is it so hard to write 'with' instead of wiz? Or use paragraphs?
2007-02-07 07:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by natasha * 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dk cuz it can be anything she is probley thinking about it dont rush her
2007-02-07 07:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by jaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go ask her out
2007-02-07 07:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋