ok...so i love him and i told him that i just want to be his friend but a want to be his best friend and i want him to accept me....help me please
2007-02-06 23:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you using the love word--how old are you??? Love is for 2 MATURE people capable of understanding what constitutes love. You seem to have a one sided relationship at best---you probably have been a pest with all these silly ideas and demands---may have scared him off--hey we have all done it at one time or another. Millions of kids are mixed up at this point in life--you'll straighten out---just be a friend and forget it, find a hobby or a job, stop worrying about all this. You cannot demand or arrange for a best friend--they come along naturally--so relax and let it happen---and quit whining, Good luck
2007-02-06 23:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you love him? You may be giving him mixed signals inasmuch as I am trying to figure out what you really mean. I'm a woman and I am confused, guys notoriously tend to be even more confused by mixed signals so I imagine he has less an idea of what you mean.
For a lot of guys, it is difficult to know what kind of love you mean and add best friend to it... there your kind of giving him the green light and the red light what is he supposed to do?
2007-02-06 23:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him that u really love him but you think it wont work if you both get into relationship besides this you feel its more secure to jus be friends well don't be gloomy and nervous saying all that jus speak as normal (the way you normally talk wiv him) and jus see how he reacts .. well if he does react weirldly jus say in a relaxed way "STOP THAT WEIRD LOOK, YOU LOOK FOOL WIV THAT LOOK ON YOUR FACE" lolz this will releive the tension of the situation and this is how it works.. lolz.. best of luck.. ;)
2007-02-06 23:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by $uhel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u still feel the same but u wont 2 be friends but most guys can't accept that it's hard for them
2007-02-06 23:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋