Ok here is my problem. Im in Love with this Girl. I have even been putting money down on an engagement ring. I truly feel she is the one for me. The problem is her parents do not approve of me. Her parents liked me when they first meet me but when they found out that i had a record they wanted her to stop talking to me. It got so bad that her father would talk to her for hours on why she shouldn't be with me and how dissappointed he was in her. Well wehave been dealing with this for a while. last week we went out to a bar and she drank but i didn't. She didn't let me drive home so i was a little up set that she drove back to my place drunk. I tried to talk to her when we go to my place but all she wanted to do was sleep. I made a mistake and told her if she was going to ingnore me she could just leave. I then tried to get her to say and said i was sorry but she still was leaveing. i grabbed her to stop her fom leaving and she fliped out. I haven't talked to her since. what do i do?
2007-02-06 23:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by brian p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me that you are the more mature one. Give it time. and one day, just give her a call, and tell her, that she may not care about herself, but you do, and you know what can happen, in a split second. And that you have concerns about her drinking and driving. Say I love you, and I just want you to make more responsible decision.
2007-02-06 23:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont play any games like waiting not to call her back. call her say sorry for grabbing her and if she doesnt want u back after that, there isnt a whole lot you can do. at least u put it out there, what u want. you are not gonna change her mind at this point, so its better to be straight forward and just find out where u stand. also, if the parents hate u and that has any bearing on how she feels about u, that is not gonna change either. if shes goin to listen to them, there nothing u can do about it. so heres a recap :
1) put it out there how u feel, if ur sorry , whatever.
2) let her respond or not respond ( either way she telling u how she really feels )
3) accept her answer]
4) if its no , move on
and 5) DONT PLAY NO GAMES
2007-02-07 07:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give her a little bit of time to cool off. Dont stay away too long, else she might interprete it as indifference on your part. I hope she is not looking for a way out the relationship, by using your altercation as an excuse? Try and send her a text message, or an email to explain to her how sorry you are and how much you wanna be with her. Send her flowers and choccies for good measure..
Hope she comes around soon!
2007-02-07 07:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweetDove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. Her actions sound deliberate, she behaved badly, upset you enough to make you kick her out, that's what she wanted, an excuse to say that you ended the relationship not her and her parents. She's never coming back.
Sorry, but hey! I bet she had some nice friends! hahaha, just kidding.
2007-02-07 07:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by RodneyOZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is old enough to drink she is an adult and can make her own choices
let her cool down and give her a call ask her to lunch and talk to her about it
tell her you were upset for her driving and that you care about her and you did not drink to be the DD
2007-02-07 07:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much u resist
2007-02-07 07:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♣I®INǻ☻ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋