ive just found out that my bf has been bidding on a girls wig how can i tell him i kno without him accusing me of logging onto his account? he always goes on mystuff, so i wanted to chack wot he was bidding on (autographs n stuff) so i wudnt bet on it for his birthday....how shall i approach him??
2007-02-06 23:09:09 · 21 answers · asked by vicky s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean it might be for me, as we always talk about spicing up our love life and he recently brought me a costume on thier
2007-02-06 23:13:48 · update #1
we dnt live together. so ill have to talk to him bout it over the phone.. its eating me up thinkin y hes got it!
2007-02-06 23:25:30 · update #2
were not spending valentines together coz were both workin!
2007-02-06 23:27:12 · update #3
He might have a fun surprise planned for you! V-Day is coming up! Don't blow it for him!
2007-02-06 23:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off, it sounds like you both have some trust issues to deal with. Start from there, and move up.
So what if he's bidding on a girl's wig. Even if it's for him to wear, isn't he still the same person? And for all you know he could be getting it for some friend of his who's working in a play or something.
The best thing to do is tell the truth. Tell him how you found out about it, and that you're concerned about it. Telling lies only leads to more lies and miss-understandings and distrust.
2007-02-06 23:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tomis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't approach him.
Yes, he is your boyfriend, but it is still wrong for you to log onto his account unless he tells you he's fine with it.
What if he was logging onto your account to see what you're bidding on (while you try to keep it a secret untill his birthday)?
He might also have a really good reason for buying that wig. If not, then he obviously is not comfortable talking about it.
2007-02-06 23:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you both go into mystuff, then if it is bothering you, then I see no reason why, you can't ask him about it. Why not just wait awhile, remember Valentine"s Day is coming. and you don't want to spoil the surprise.
2007-02-06 23:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just wait for the right time when he is on the computer and you spot him look around the wig and go hang on him and ask him what he is doing and if you spot it them ask him what is that for. They may keep you away from the peeking thing.
2007-02-06 23:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, just say, don't ya like my hair the way it is?????? see what he says , you will tell by the response if hes hiding summat, there might be a perfect explanation for it! Don't jump to conclusions , just ask him!
2007-02-06 23:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by anney 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What difference does it make? if he doesnt tell you maybe hes gonna be like that spaceship ***** and freak out on you and follow you? ......seriously if he doesnt tell you...find a way to find out what he did with it?.....distract his ***,make a copy of his apt key...whatever you need to do......or plain confront his *** period!
2007-02-07 14:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by evilbender2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him. i don't think there will be aproblem as u guys seem to have that kind of relationship where u go into each other's stuff.
2007-02-06 23:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by rambo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh hun, just tell him! that's the best way! cause honesty is the most important - and he'll tell u the rest!
2007-02-06 23:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait to see what he does with the wig. don't mention the indiscretion and sin no more.
2007-02-06 23:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by NC Mom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋