OK. I know I'm far from the first woman whose boyfriend set up an alternate email account and went looking for dates online. But I need a creative way to deal with him. To stimulate your imagination, let me give you a few facts. He used the $170 digital camera I bought him for Xmas to take his pictures to post. He is living with me and has been out of a job for almost a month, not paying anything and not even helping around the house. And he's using the internet service I'M paying for to try to hook up. I need a plan to justly compensate for his level of lowness.
2007-02-06 23:02:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tina L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i know how i would deal with this man..i wouldn't be playing his dam games he would be out of MY house if this is what hes doing..no two ways about it.
2007-02-14 16:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a big problem in relationships now a day..... the best thing to do is just be open with him let him know you really don't like it and you would rather him not do it....he might get mad and bring up the trust thing but if he truly loves you then he will fix any problem that you have......my question for you is has he ever giving you a reason to believe he would or has ever cheated on you..... and even though people won't admit it on-line chatting falls under the category of cheating it can tear a relationship right down the middle .
2016-03-29 09:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine had the same problem- She decided to go online to the same site as him, posting a fake picture etc and contacted him online to say she was interested in his profile etc, they chatted a while over the internet and then agreed to meet in a bar. so he turns up to meet this gorgeous blond model etc and there she was -his very own girlfriend. She confronted him briefly then went across the road to be with her friends for an evening of much needed support. He, terrified, went straight home to find his possessions packed up ready for his move out.
genuis.
good luck girl.
2007-02-14 22:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definately doing the right thing - kick him out, you deserve better!
I've heard of situations like this, one suggestion is if you have his email details, find the girls that he's hooking up with - chances are they're just normal girls, maybe even teenagers(!!) who don't know what's going on. If you tell them, they'll reject him. It's not much, but it's a start.
Or you can empty his wallet and kick him out onto the street - throw his clothes out the window!
It doesn't sound like he's treating you well, so whatever you do, find yourself a decent guy! :)
Good luck for the future
2007-02-06 23:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dark42 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Create your own account online, take some photo's of yourself and then if you know his account id name send him a wink with your photo's. On your profile or in the email you send to him let him know how you really feel about online cheating. He'll get the message really quick that you know about it, and that two people can play this game. Also, tell him, that you are more likely to get more hit's that he is simply because you are a female.
2007-02-06 23:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most creative way is the simplest, dump him and kick him out. Move on to greener pasture before you get sucked into the vortex of seeking revenge. Then you will have no time to find someone better.
2007-02-07 06:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I caught a boyfriend cheating online by getting another email account, sending him a flirty but anonymous email with a fake name saying I didnt know whre the email addy had come from and was cleaning out my desk so i didnt know if it was important and then got flirty and he wanted to meet up with me and then i sprung him, he was soooooo busted, priceless!
2007-02-10 01:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would just stop paying for the internet service. Tell him when he can act like an adult he can go back online.
2007-02-06 23:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have been in a simalar situation but not so serious.. sounds like he is just using you! Set up a fake name and come on to him.. then if he falls for it plan a place to meet up.. kinda like a date!! Then if he agrees pack all his stuff and take it to the place you are supposed to meet him!!
2007-02-14 16:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by It's a Boy! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you are doing everthing for him he wants to prove that he is a man by finding other women.Dont do everthing for him let him stand on his own feet
2007-02-14 17:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋