i hav a girlfrnd who recently got married only to find that her "guy" is actually a gay...n then she startd emotionally blckmailin me n2 havin a relationship with her ......now should i yield to her ??
2007-02-06 22:59:11 · 24 answers · asked by shabev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK SAY NO BECAUSE IT MAY EFFECT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.
2007-02-06 23:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who is she to blackmail you? what power does anyone have over you until you want to yield to that power. I would never advice you to start a relationship with a married women no matter how much she forces you. Remember it may be a man's world but the law is on the other side, if you yield and later on she gets caught the blame will be on you not her. If her husband is gay ask her to divorce him and come out of the wedlock, as it is she is not respecting its sanctity so why suffer.
2007-02-07 07:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by veenupantdev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world says many things but remember always check about the truth before you act. In your case, first try to find out whether the news you got is true or not then take proper action.
2007-02-07 07:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not.
First off, don't get yourself into anything you're not comfortable in.
Second of all, she's in an awkward position - finding out that her husband isn't exactly... straight.
And thirdly, she's married! Having an affair is... inhuman.
I suggest streer clear, it sounds like a messy situation. Be there for your friend, but don't get into anything until it's sorted out.
2007-02-07 07:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dark42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure of it that her husband is a Gay not a Guy?
Who told u that he is that so,,, your G/F only right. May be she is lying just to get you physically.
She is now married, just forget her and hunt for a new partner. Don't waste time thinking of her, it will only spoil your life.
2007-02-07 07:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her, then go for it man. Sex without any strings attached wow you are lucky. But if you love her then don't ever go back to her as she has broken your heart once and now she is come to you only because her husband cannot satisfy her sexual needs. Today it is you tomorrow might be someone else.
2007-02-07 13:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Santosh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how do you know she is telling you the truth about her man being gay? She may just be looking for a bit on the side. Secondly, if he is gay could she have caught AIDS from him?
2007-02-07 07:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the perfect situation.
All the lovin you want Free.
Go for it, Let her old man pay the bills, while your getting the goodies
2007-02-07 07:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Golly Geewiz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you the one at the alter saying "I Do"? If she could say I do, she could
get a legal separation and say that she no longer will, and get a divorce.
Otherwise, don't get used. She sounds like big trouble!!
2007-02-07 07:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by V B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure wats the problem unless and until u r married, wherein u should ask for your wifes consent. If no then just shut all dorrs to her. would be fine for you.
2007-02-07 07:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a time bomb, do'nt play with her. Even she does not know when she may explode. She may, today or tomorrow, become a patient of HIV and other ..........
Life is your's take care
2007-02-10 02:07:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋