Well I like this guy right. Well I don't know him. But he seems cool. I seen him and we talked a little bit. This would be a year ago in April. Well he was my sisters friend. And they were into eachother. But my sister realized that she doesn't want anything from him but his friendship and respect. Well 3 times in the past year she brang it up to me that me and him should hook up. I don't wanna jump into things right away because I know it will mess up. I got to see if hes the one I'm lookin for. But dayum he is a hottie. What should I do ladies? Should I go for it and get to know the guy? I won't be seeing him til April though. I have been single for 2 years also. So I'm ready for another relationship. Should I wait and see what he's about? Or just keep searching for another man? And by the way my sister has yet to properly introduce me and him. But I think he was feeling something for me though, He even dedicated a song to me which I thought was sweet. I really don't know what to do!
2007-02-06 22:47:16 · 5 answers · asked by Pretty Native Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I want positive answers. Not childish Ma'Fu|<|
2007-02-06
22:53:52 ·
update #1
Ok. Like I said I am not going to jump into things right quick. I'd rather talk with him n be friends for a while with him. Cause I'm seeing if he is what I am looking for. I am not looking for short term relationship. I am looking to settle down with a guy and get married. That's my plans. So if he has everything on my list that I want. Than I got him in the long run. For now I will stay getting to know him for a few months.
2007-02-06 23:01:21 · update #2
Now be a lady! all of the languages, is not necessary. First of all why you have not mention about this guy to your sister? since she does not want him, then I see no reason why you cannot talk to her about him. She probably could tell you the type of person he is. You can't afford to just jump into a relationship, because that is just a waste of time. What you have to do is take your time, and learn what the guy is all about. You have to be friends first, so you can get to know a person, them friendship grows into a relationship! and you can move on from their. I hope this works out for you!
2007-02-06 23:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know the guy. There's no reason to jump into a relationship right away. If he's interested in you, let a friendship grow, then both of you can decide if you want to take it further.
2007-02-07 06:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk. Talk lightly and about anything. When you feel that youre comfortable enough - the conversation will get to its course and you would feel it. Thta there is a something. Yes this is a step in getting to know each other. Do not put any pressure. Just enjoy it!
2007-02-07 06:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by shanekeavy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax,and allow things to work out in a natural way.
2007-02-07 06:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont do anything. Let guy tell you he wants something about you or not.
Don't mess up things unnecessarily
2007-02-07 06:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋