One month ago i descovered that my love was cheating on me from july last year ...and she finished with him in december also in the 2006!since i knew i can't tell her that i love her anymore but "something" keeps me staying with her ...every time i kiss her it's like i am kissing the other guy but i can stop doing that even if i know that!i dont know what to do next...
2007-02-06 22:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by Faur C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I believe in seconds, third & fourth chances, as long as there is a real commitment from the 1 who cheated and definite steps taken by both to regain & rebuild what was lost! By the sounds of it you love her deeply and that alone is worth yr relationship. As a couple you will need help in areas of communication, self esteem/worth, possibly anger, resentment, forgiveness/unforgiveness etc. Give yourselves a good chance by committing to a good therapist! Don’t be foolish and think you can get through this without an outsider. What you both do here will determine the outcome of your relationship…good luck
2007-02-06 22:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u have not gotten past the fact that she cheated on u. if u really want to give this relationship a 2nd go, do talk things out with her. and try to find out what was the underlying reason that led her to cheat on u. it could be bcos she was not happy with the relationship with you, maybe u aint showering her enough love, etc.
if u decide to try again, try to set some boundaries and also get her views if she is committed to working things out again.
2nd chances could work but only if both parties are serious about it to make it work, not to repeat the same mistakes since you both have already gone through that path. good luck
2007-02-07 06:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I couldn't stay with someone that cheated on me. My ex-fiance of over a year and a half cheated on me and after I literally walked in on them, I couldn't even look at her. If she cared about you, she wouldn't be sleeping around on you. Simply put, trust and honesty are 2 of the 3 most important things in a relationship. Without these, you have nothing.
2007-02-07 06:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you need to leave her sleezy ***!!!
in my own opinion i've had this done to me by my boyfriend!
i gave him everything my trust and love was all i had to give.
if that is your case than you need to leave her.
tell her be upfront and make her notice what you want!
demand it!
you earned the chance to stand up to her.
be a man and tell her the truth.
that's love what you feel when you kiss her but also betrayal and that's why you need to get far away from her and her sleeziness.
if you stay than you must soooo stupid to get hurt again and your looking for it.
good luck.
stay strong.
2007-02-07 06:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it ONCE, will do it AGAIN, especially if she knows you will take her back. Get rid of her once and for all. Goes for Men too. One cannot trust their family in todays world, and someone like this that is NOT family will walk all over you if they get the chance. RUN do not WALK away from her
2007-02-07 06:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rely all depends if you can come to forgive her and know that she is truly sorry and trust her again because no relationship will work without trust.
2007-02-07 06:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU FEEL THIS MUCH RESENTMENT TOWARDS HER THE BEST THING TO DO IS END THIS RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU STAY WHILE SHE IS GONE SHOPPING YOU WILL WONDER ALL THE TIME WHO IS SHE WITH NOW.
2007-02-07 06:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by BARRY D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋