How to ask a girl out at work....?

Question

I've seen this asked a lot on here, but none of the answers really seem like they'd work. I'll try and see what I get.

Two years ago I moved into a new neighborhood. On the first night I went to the local grocery store and this really cute check-out girl flirted with me. I let it go (stupidly) and figured when I came back maybe the door would open for more conversation. It hasn't. I feel like because I didn't act the first time, she's forgotten about me. She still works there, she's a supervisor now. She's even prettier today than she was then. She was there tonight and I just couldn't get a decent conversation started. I still want to ask her out, but grocery stores are always busy in this city (Los Angeles).

Thoughts, anyone?

Answer 1

Hi

I think you should go out and buy some petty stuff and ask for her assistance. You should be bold and once you are engaged in the conversation, you just remind her the occasion when you moved in the city you first saw her, and that you tried hard to meet her again. Only then should you ask her if you could walk her home or have a coffee when she ends her shift.
After this I suppose you should be able to continue by yourself.

Take care

A.

Answer 2

Simple: Next time you are there, have your number written on a piece of paper and ask her how she'd feel if you gave her your number. Depending on her answer, give her the slip of paper and exit the building. Give her a week tops to call her, and if she doesn't, find another grocery store. If she does call you, take it from there. I know that this sounds odd, but it's worked for me in the past out here in western Pennsylvania.

Answer 3

I would say play it casual - you don't expect she's going to be your girlfriend tomorrow, right?

Even though you see her regularly, you guys aren't friends, and that's really where anything good begins.

So, next time you see her, ask her about what she does when she's not supervising. Listen to what she says.

The time you see her after that, say, hey, I know you like concerts (hiking, drinking coffee, riding bikes, whatever), and I was wondering if you'd like to hang out after work sometime next week and go do that.

If she's hesitant at all, just keep your cool and don't take it personally- you don't know if she has a boyfriend, or if she's lesbian, or if she has a policy of not dating customers - you just don't know.

If she says yes, just keep getting to know her as a friend first for as long as it takes to gain her trust.

Answer 4

just play it cool!
if she doesn't strike up anything but she gives you looks just try to talk to her.
but if she doesn't notice you than your just making a complete *** of yourself.
it's not rocket science! if the chemistrys there then it's there you gotta do something to intensify it and make it happen woman love it when you make the first move.