don't know what to do due to be a good lover. any advice?
2007-02-06 22:04:19 · 19 answers · asked by yooooogre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do waht your beloved wants but not always. because you can attract hem/her if you be sometimes strict and difficult but kind.
2007-02-06 22:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Armin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, don't try to be too good! Unless your in a cinemax movie, things shouldn't go right. There should be mistakes, and giggles, and things should occasionally get broken, and there can be burps and farts as long as you look like your embarrassed and sorry afterwards (and you didn't eat a lot of cauliflower!) Good lovers are vulnerable and sweet and nervous and caring. after that, just keep making mistakes, and keeping having fun.
2007-02-07 06:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Miz Understood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By putting the needs and satisfaction of your partner over your own. Being truly in LOVE with the person is normally a good place to start.
2007-02-07 06:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you would want your lover to treat you. That's how you would be a good lover.
2007-02-07 06:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pay attention to signals sent by the other person. If they like something keep doing it. Ask what they like. HAVE FUN!!!! Having fun and laughing in bed is the most important thing. Don't take it too seriously.
2007-02-07 06:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be enthusiastic non judgemental and clean and half the battle is won. Then care more about the other persons needs then your own and things will go well.
2007-02-07 06:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good lover is the person who cannot hurt the one he loves. you must care for her or him more than anyone else. he or she must feel that you love him or her more than aything elsel. its your genes(if we can say so). if you start feeling that you need him or her this means that u are becoming a lover. remember one thing love cannot be gained by snatching another one's love. there must be trust in your relationship. no infidelity. have a nice time.
2007-02-07 06:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by flore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Considerate, carring, attentive, kind, trustworthy, tolerant, honest and happy to be with your other-half!
Its difficult, but not impossible.
All the best! Be happpy!
2007-02-07 06:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no hard and fast rules to this as what one person likes another might not, so the best way is to speak to your partner and work to what they like, dont be afraid to ask.
2007-02-07 06:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rhythm
2007-02-07 06:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
be attentive and assertive give a little take a little.
make each day as if it's your last together.
keep the eternal flame burning bright and strong.
just see what happens in the future and just respect you mind body and soul and your partner!!
do simple things to please each other.
good luck!
2007-02-07 06:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋