Fake Boobs?

Question

When I was in highschool I had an insane insecurity issue. I was very shy. I was an actress though, lead in every single play. But off the stage I was so modest. During sexual things with my boyfriends I would never take my shirt off. My mom suggested getting plastic surgery. It was honestly the best decision of my life. I feel so much better about myself. My heads always held up high. I can walk in victoria secrets and look sexy with anything they have there. I'm not ugly by any means so it's not like guys JUST like me because of my boobs, but I feel so much better about myself. So much confidence has came with them. Tell me your honest opinon on fake boobs. It wont hurt my feelings becuase I feel so great with them. I was just wondering what other people thought. Please let me know, thank you :)

Answer 1

I personally do not like them, I think most of them look plain fake. I don't agree with the surgery unless you needed it due to cancer or something. Having this kind of surgery is putting yourself unnecessarily at risk. You should love yourself for who you are naturally. :)

Answer 2

I think if you're very small chested AA or have a type of "deformity" than it is great to get implants because you will look & feel so much better, plus, shopping for clothing that actually fits will be easier. I only disagree with people who try to go too big or who are young with perfectly fine breasts (B or C). Some people have perfectly good breasts that just try to be too large to try to be like Pamela Anderson & other famous big, fake chested stars. Some people are not really small chested & don't understand what it feels like to have the body of a 9 yr old, or to have an ugly chest. But I say if you are uncomfortable with your chest & would feel more confident about yourself having altered it & it makes you happier, than it's totally worth it.

Answer 3

Being a naturally large chested woman myself, I don't understand why women would want to do that to themselves. But I can honestly say that even if I was smaller in that area, I still would not have believed all the hype about big boobs. Your security should come from the inside, not from your breasts.

I used to dance, in the adult field. So many chicks who I was friends with on the outside thought that I made the most money. Not true. Girls of all stature made money.

I don't personally agree with breast enhancements, unless you have had one or both removed surgically. Eventually you may find that there is something else that you don't like about yourself and go and get that fixed. And then something else and something else. I just hope you don't fall into that pattern.

I am sure that you were very beautiful before hand and didn't need the boob job. And I must say SHAME on your mom for suggesting it. She should have told you that you didn't need it. That people and men should love you for who you are. Not for the size of your boobs. And she should have said that you should love you for who you are, not for the size of your boobs,

This is my opinion on that.

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And I just read your other question and the issue wasn't your breasts, it was your addictions, the fact that you don't support yourself, that you don't believe that you can, that you barely went to school since It's conception. Work from the inside out girl. Not from the outside in. Don't get trapped.

Lots of Love

Beth

Answer 4

I think it's great that you are happy. Like your motto say's "you only live once..so live". Why can't you be allowed to feel sexy? MOST of the people on here that are opposed to breast implants are big chested girls that obviously don't know what it's like to not buy that cute bra at the sale because they don't go that small or have cute guys say they like more developed girls. Or are guys that have no experience TOUCHING a fake boob. Also if you fell in love would you dump somebody becuase you found out they had a boob job? And if you date that person obviously you though they were attractive to begin with.
Most people against breast implants just don't understand that NO you cannot feel sexy when you are flat and on a beach, when you are missing a UNIVERSAL trait of femine beauty. That you are a sexual being and want to have something up their to be groped, as an A cup let me tell you...it ain't much!

For all the men, if the size of your penis was permenatly written in bold neon on all your clothes would you not feel self confident if you were the only small penis in a group, and that people KNOW?

and how is that mother wrong? She is realistic, you can love your body but it's hard to do knowing that 99% of guys out there will say they don't mind small chested girls, but that only about 45% of the good ones will look at you and not your well 'developed friends', and only 20% of those do it straight away not only after seeing your inner beauty and personality

Wow...I'm so ranting now....

also if you are thin and have small boobs you look anorexic, even if people don't understand that breasts are genetic and gaining 50pounds for us will only turn a crabapple into a kiwi.

ALSO it's hard to be motivated to be fit and healthy, becuase when you have nice tight abs with no breasts naked...you look like a freakish lean man or like an alien.....which makes it really hard to be motivated to exercise or feel sexy

ALSO your top is thinner when you have no boobs and makes you look anorexic...

we all want to feel sexy and desired not...he got to know me and decided to overlook my chest


MAIN POINT!!!


do not say it is wrong if you honesty have no REAL experience of a small chest (A cup and lower) or have actually ****** a boob job chick

done

Answer 5

I don't think they're bad at all. I am actually like you (when you were younger), I'm a junior in high school and I have a flat chest. I am having huge insecurity issues right now because I catch my bf staring at other girls and it makes me feel bad that I don't have a nice body. but besides that. I wanted a testimonial from someone who actually got breast implants because googling it isn't really getting me anywhere. I'm really glad that you're happy with them! I hear bad stuff about them a lot, but I think it's because they're jealous, conformist in thought, or that they're not in the situation so they don't understand ( also I don't think they're telling the truth and they actually like them). Could you tell me if you can really feel the difference? or what kind of surgery you got? I heard there's different kinds like silicone or saline or something. I'm really desperate about knowing more because I am seriously considering it.

so all in all, I don't mind implants on girls, I can't even tell the difference (which is my fault I think)

please help me out btw!

Answer 6

I really used to think I would want them one day, back when I was in high school, but now, I am so glad I didn't pursue it. God gave me a beautiful body that I do my best to take care of, and I will not put foreign objects into me. It is all about finding out who you are, what you do love about yourself, and being content with what you have, and your mother should not have suggested it, she should have reminded you that you are beautiful the way you are made, no alterations needed. As far as guys go, high school boys I am sure want the Playboy Bunny body, but only because that is what the world is teaching boys. Find a great man who loves you for who you are, and you will truly feel like you do not need to change a thing.

Answer 7

personally, i would never get fake boobs, but i don't have anything against people who do get them.
what i don't agree with is what i call the "Pamela Anderson," which you probably already know what that is!!
i think if someone wants a boob job, they should get a size that would look good with their figure.
i have a small chest, but even if my breast were any bigger, it wouldn't look good in proportion with the rest of my body.
but as long as you are happy, that's what matters.
i would rather for someone to get a boob job and be more confident, than to spend the rest of their life miserable.
as a woman, i know that we like to feel sexy, and it wouldn't be fair for you not to.
regardless of what anyone says, it is about you, and your happiness.
your body, your decisions, your life.

Answer 8

I'm not really into the whole fake boob thing but it's your body and if it makes you feel better thats great. Confidence is a great thing and all out people gain it in different ways. so continue to hold that head high.

Answer 9

well i am a 36c which i believe is right in the middle of the road. in my family i have people with A's and DD's, so i hear both side of the stories.
Personally I do not believe in the surgery since i think you should be able to be happy with who you are and with what was given to you.
But i know everyone is different and i hope you lead a happy life and will never come to regret your decision.

Answer 10

My honest opinion on fake boobs: They are degrading. Why have women worked so hard to be seen as equals, just to turn around, and make themselves flakey sex symbols again? You said your not ugly, so it's not like guys just like you for your boobs. Girl, you think the reason guys like you is for your looks. That means you are settling for guys that value your appearance more than who you are as a person. That's sad. I think being too "hot' can distract a guy from the more important things he should be concentrating on, like if you are someone he could become close with on a deeper level. Im "hot" too, but when I was dating my husband, I actually downplayed my appearace, because I wanted him to focus on who I am. Just a little extra unsolicited advice.