im 2o years old i broke up with my 3yr boyfriend then had an amazing 6 and a half weeks with someone and fell madly in l;ove. they ditched me without any real explaination now im single and really desperate to meet someone who gives me that same feeling i got over the 6 weeks. i cant relax its all i think about i just feel like time is against me and its so impossible.
2007-02-06 21:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take this time to do some self care and become "high maintainance" so that you can attract a better quality man, have a better quality and longer-term relationship next time. Start with the outside and work your way in. Get a makeover and spa treatment. Go back to school and finish your degree or technical certificate program. Get together with friends and family members your spent less time with during your 3-year relationship. How's your relationship with God? Put the focus on that which should always be your most important relationship. Become active in your community and help others who can't help themselves. Do all the stuff you won't have time to do once you get married and have kids. If you do all of that you won't have so much time to worry about finding someone to love you.
2007-02-06 22:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by MsE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're nonetheless very youthful. you've a lot time to get to do each thing you opt on. i imagine in hardship-free words you may tell at the same time as that is time so that you'll be able to commence your relatives. i do not imagine you're waiting for no reason. i imagine you're waiting on your motives that are the right motives. do not enable others to make those judgements for you. savour the immediately and the labor will pay off contained in the proper. best needs.
2016-12-03 20:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off you cant fall madly in love in 6 weeks
you were just filling the space of your bf
just take it slow it will happen it takes ppl a life time to find the "right" one
it took me 37 yrs 1 bad marriage and 8 yrs of being on my own to find my mr right and it just happened out of the blue
2007-02-06 22:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress, you have plenty of time.
You are probably in a rush because it takes time to adjust to being on your own......and its nice to have someone to hold. And you are perfect breeding age so maybe your biological clock is ticking loud and affecting your brain : )
Keep yourself distracted, take up a new hobbie. Mr Right won't be far away.
2007-02-06 21:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by lostmesheep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you're in a rush to meet someone because you are lonely and probably insecure. Chances are you love feeling that feeling that you call love, but it's really just infatuation and lust. Ah well, good luck.
2007-02-06 21:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to meet people and hook up, but finding someone special can take a long time. You might have to go on a lot of dates, but you can do that if you devote your time and energy to it. There is no reason to feel discouraged.
2007-02-06 21:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off men react to desperate women differntly than women react to desperate men
you'll be a target for sleezebags, and guys willing to tell you anything to take advantage of you
maybe taking one of your interests, hobbies or passions, that you can engage in socially and use that as a platform to find a mate, that way you have more than just this desire to have someone in your mind
2007-02-06 23:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by a_nemus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're probably lonely and don't want to be alone, so thats why you want to be with someone.
2007-02-06 21:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Donna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno
2007-02-06 21:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Nicoletta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋