My girlfriend use to hang around with a guy friend but I found out that he liked her more then friends so I asked her kindly not to be his friend. So she did just that. But lately she has been going to places close to where he works at. I don’t want to control her in any way. Should I be jealous about this? Because I get this feeling as though you know they will get close to each other and she will breakup with me. It’s a weird type of feeling.
2007-02-06 21:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want to be controlling in any way, why'd you ask her to stop hanging out with him? Just because some guy has feelings for your girlfriend, it doesn't mean she's going to do anything with him. If you trust her, let her do what she wants. You shouldn't worry about it if you actually care about her. You should not feel jealous about her hanging out with her friends. Nine chances out of ten, she's known this guy longer than she's known you. If you don't trust her, get out of the relationship. There's absolutely no point in trying to stay in a relationship if there are trust issues. Examine yourself and find out why you feel this way.
2007-02-06 21:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls seem to like to make their bf a little jealous...
I would leave it alone at this point, which could be tough to do, even though girls like their guys to be jealous, the don't want a control freak, if somethign else happens then get into action
2007-02-07 05:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust her then trust ur own trust ! when she accepts that she isn't gonna see him again after u asked her.. then be sure she won't ... try to be a person she wants then ur not gonna be worry about anything !
2007-02-07 06:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by persian_ladyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do more things, give her things, be even nicer, and try talking about it with her
2007-02-07 05:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by blue moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋