I don't know what to do. it's a difficult situation. one of the boys is my exboyfriend an the other is the one I'm with for the moment. I am happy , but I often think of my ex.
2007-02-06 21:33:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like to me you still have feelings for you ex. your not ready to be in a relationship if u still think about him. DON'T PLAY WITH YOUR CURRENT BF'S MIND. thats the worse thing u can do.BE HONEST JUST BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR CURRENT, until you can fig out what it is you really want, in the long run if you hurt him or ur ex it will bite ya in the butt down the road. open communication is what you need to learn. good luck to you
2007-02-06 21:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by texasdaddy2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to ask yourself is why you broke up with your ex (or vice versa) in the first place? Then ask yourself why you are with your current bf. Assuming you initiated the breakup, chances are, you can find both positive and negative qualities in each of them. Perhaps each fulfills a certain part of you. Unfortunately, we can't pick and choose only the good. Everybody comes as a complete package and we have to accept everything that comes with it. If your ex broke up with you, you need only decide whether you are ready for another relationship; otherwise, you need to decide what's truly important to you and make one of three choices:
1. Stay with your current bf,
2. Break off with your current bf and get back together with the ex or
3. Break off with both.
Notice that being with both isn't an option? It's interesting that you qualify your current relationship as 'for the moment'. It's time to make a decision.
2007-02-07 05:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tawni A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are with one of the guys right now then you need to get over the other. If you can't get over the other, then you need to be honest with the guy your with and break it off to be with the other. Whatever you do, don't play them both at the same time because everyone will wind up getting hurt in the long run.
2007-02-07 05:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation... I split with my partner (not really down to this). I now have both of them on my case yet it doesnt feel right. Things are in the past for a reason
2007-02-07 05:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by summer nights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS NO GOOD HON - YOU ARE NOT OVER YOUR EX - AND YOU ARE GONNA END HURTING YOURSELF . THE GUY YOU ARE WITH NOW AND YOUR EX .
2 IS A COUPLE HON, 3 IS A CROWD
WHAT IF YOU KNEW THAT YOUR EX AND THE CURRENT GUY ALSO LOVED SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU ?
>>>>>>>> EHHHH ??? NO ????
RIGHT HON >>> IT IS A NO NO - SO ??? NO / NO IT MUST BE EVEN IF IT MEANS YOU GIVE THEM BOTH UP
2007-02-07 05:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your ex dumped you when you were still in love with him. Don't worry you will get over it(as if I'm getting over mine) concentrate on your new boy, try to see your ex less or even limit your comunication with him.
2007-02-07 05:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really difficult to love both of them I'm thinking its just an obsession...go out with both of them at the Same time see what happens...
2007-02-07 05:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by frank o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one of two things to do in that situation
1. Have them both
2. Make up your mind
2007-02-07 05:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Insensitively Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey listen to this.....
Does your ex still like you???
If he does then its good....
Next how do you feel when your with your boyfriend and how do you feel when your with your ex???
If you feel better with you boyfriend then forget your ex..
if you feel better with your ex then ask him if he has any feelings for you....if he does then be with him or do what ever you want ....
this hard....
2007-02-07 05:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over your ex. You need to decide who you want to be with
2007-02-07 05:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋