2007-02-06 20:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is vague....you said concern....be specific.
But if you are asking about love in general, then it is best you go
read books or log into sites that offer you the best information to
solve your present status, this is because we can be all in the
same situation , but not all men are alike and it all depends on
their individual needs to address the verb you trying to put into
action. It is not a matter of service on the service, it has to come
deep within and do you develop that takes the both of you to go
talk it over.......I 'd suggestion you open-up and don't forget it is
not a sin nor a bad attitude to discuss this openly with your own
man, ask him more of what is there that you need to do to keep
him satisfied.....It takes two to tango....once you neglect this one
ness of open discussion with your man...it leads him to look for
it , and this is why most man get bored....regular exchange of
ideas and options to make your bedroom relationship works is
part of what his concern too, prior to performance.
If you don't plan the foundation of your love making well before
mating , he will never be satisfied....you can't enjoy something
when your partner doesn't sing the same tune.
2007-02-06 21:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Joeline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight out that you don't want to do it (if you really don't.) If he is a great loving boyfriend then he will understand it and respect your opinion. If he gets angry at you and shows you disrespect then it's obvious that he's just using you for his own sexual pleasure. If that's the case, get out of the relationship and find someone who will love you the way you are, and will respect your choices.
2007-02-07 04:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by rainbowstylin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you underaged? Is he trying to convince you of having unprotected sex? Are you in a serious relationship? If you are old enough to have sex, protect yourself with condoms or birth control pills and go for it as long as you know the guy well and really likes him and he really likes you. Make sure he is not trying to take advantage of you. But if you are not old enough, then stay away from it. A boy who portrays to be your true friend would protect you; don't you think so?
2007-02-07 04:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not ready yet just tell him how you feel...if he really loves you then he will wait til the time is right and you are ready...he will understand and will not force you if you dont want to. He should respect that.
2007-02-07 04:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by diwata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give it up before you are ready. Men want sex because they are men [I know I am one of them]. It is only part of the big picture, a small part that can complicate your future. There is nothing wrong with saving yourself for the right person, he will get over it.
2007-02-07 04:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Skiing in March 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to push him , would u like it if it were the other way around.
Let him know ull be there for as long as it takes (if u really are prepared to wait around that long)
2007-02-07 04:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pants up....He SHOULD be concerned about your feelings, not his penis. Wait for the guy that cares about you MORE than his penis, and you'd better pack a lunch.
2007-02-07 04:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is he concerned , does he walk arround with a bone a dog couldnt chew, does he keep on you, or what., need more information
2007-02-07 04:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why call him a boy friend if you can't make love with him?
2007-02-07 04:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not concerned about "making love" to you. Men don't make love, they fu**.
2007-02-07 04:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Paul Frehley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋