the ex now wants everything you wanted. he is making the adjustments to make life with you better. so would you go back and try? Esp if he surprised you with his devotion and the commitment he wants to show. I mean this was the guy you loved, right? Or in this situation does the new guy have the edge? Thanks.
2007-02-06 20:20:50 · 14 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends how much you loved the old guy, and how nice the new one is. If your heart is with the old guy, give him one last chance. If it has moved on tell him it's too late. That way he can learn for his next relationship.
2007-02-06 20:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually by the time I have ended things with someone I have exhausted all possible solutions and I can't take anymore from that person, so if I'm to the point where I would even consider another man, there is very little possibility that I would ever leave a new man for an ex, no matter what carrot he was dangling in front of me.
2007-02-06 20:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest wit u no one can answer this question but you! but u have to ask urself do u still love ur x or are u over it? do u c urself goin anywhere wit this new guy? I was in a similar situation bout 10 months ago, i left my partner cos i couldnt deal wit they way things were after 4 years and i met someone else and after a couple of months my x decided he wanted me back and made compromise in his life for me, we decided to give things another go, but before we did we made it clear to eachother exactly what we wanted and expected from each other and if it didnt work out this time then it definitely wasnt meant to be and we're still together 10 months later. Just remember that you'll never know unless you try and dont make a decision that will always leave u wondering what if? Obviously ur ex learnt wat he had when he lost u and now he's trying to make things right, gotta give him points for that!
2007-02-06 20:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by CrAzYmAmMa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm...this lady here i guess u're in a dilemma. I myself came across the same situation as u. We were separated for about a yr or 2. We got back after that n were together for about almost 2years. Ask yourself y do he wants u back so badly? is it for accompany? For the time when both of you are no longer boyfrens & galfrens, did he go for other gals or he has been improving himself silently just that you take no notice at all?? U're a gal blessed with someone who loves u alot & hopes to protect u, care for u & be there for u be it sorrows or happiness.
Of cox it still voice down to who u like & love. Hw deep ur feelings are to both of them( ex & new )
Wish u good luck
2007-02-06 20:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by wizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, it is what occurs once you have a infant with somebody and that they marry somebody else. Your son ought to be able to spend time together with his father, and his father's new spouse is a factor of the deal. i'm sorry you don't love it. That being stated...what's incorrect with having a loving Momma sparkling? it is not as though she is insisting he call her Mommy. He grew to become into little, and it sounds like he remains surprisingly youthful, so he would be unable to make sense of the completed subject. that's a solid element that your ex boyfriend's spouse is so solid to the newborn--there are a number of infants who desire they have been that fortunate. i think of you're only being oversensitive and could be bitter that your ex left you and married this different female. consistent with probability speaking to a marriage and family individuals therapist could help you out. Your son isn't choosing her over you! Your son isn't the right age to try this. He talks approximately her simply by fact it sort of sounds like he spends an outstanding sort of time along with her and he's prepared on her. could you be that offended in the adventure that your son referred to his dad or a chum from college for all time? of course not. you're only bitter, and consistent with probability feeling insecure approximately your parenting skills. you will possibly desire to get some expert help to artwork by your emotions, simply by fact wager what? Your ex-boyfriend's spouse is your son's STEPMOTHER. each little thing which you defined on your question is definitely suited and suited habit between a stepparent and stepchild, and in case you weren't so busy making the area all approximately you, you would be satisfied that your son has such a solid courting together with his stepmom. it is not a contest, so end performing love that's, and for heaven's sake, do not take it out on your son.
2016-09-28 13:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by puzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my ex broke up I decided I would do anything to get him back. And that meant doing things that did not make me happy. We broke up later because neither of us were happy still.
I would make sure that he is still going to be happy about the changes and make sure that he isn't going to come back on his word later.
I think it depends on how much you care for each of them. That is a tough decision. Do you trust your ex to make these changes? What can the new guy bring to your life? Who do you see yourself with in 10 years? Either of them?
2007-02-06 20:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I would have to consider why we broke up and just how serious me and the new guy were. If we were very serious then I would stick with the new guy.
Many times when people break up one of them comes to their senses and discovers just what they are missing and will do anything to get it back, including lying and making you think things will be better.
Do some serious thinking before making up your mind.
2007-02-06 20:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on who broke up with who. If he broke up with me then no I would not get back with him b/c I would partially pi.ssed. And if I broke up with him I might think about getting back with him, but there was probably a reason why I did break up with him in the first place. So there is probably a 90% chance of me not getting back with him, especially if there's a new guy in the picture.
2007-02-06 20:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship is about love not about new or old bf.If u love your old bf why not go back for him with all your heart.For breaking up and wishing to come back together means there is somthing special u both want from that relationship.
2007-02-06 20:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Bman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your x, i mean y the sudden change nwae, jus coz u finally got sm1 else hez ready to be your Mr Perfect? i dont think so!!!!!!! think he jus wants to take u for a ryd, so dnt let him.
2007-02-06 21:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by roxxy babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋