i have a boyfriend weve we been going for out 3months and he still hasnt open up two me and theres been misscomcations cause hasnt told me the hole thing and he seems talk to his friends better then me what can i do to make him feel comtable around me and make him open up ?
2007-02-06 19:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him space he will open up just give him time. Try sitting down with him and letting him know!
2007-02-06 19:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold his hand. Kiss him gently and look him in the eyes. As you're doing these things, think to yourself..."I love this man with all my heart, and I want to help him, and I want you to know I love you"...but don't say it. Believe me, he will get the message. He is just one of those guys who has a block against intimte feelings. He has built up walls to protect himself. Let him take them down in his own time. Give yourself time. Just let him know, without saying it (saying it is "too intimate") that you are there for him, and you love him, regardless of whatever is bothering him. You do, don't you? Does it really matter what it is? Just love him unconditionally, and he'll grow to trust and respect you.
2007-02-06 19:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by adannelly2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be offended but he isn't ready to open up to you OR he doesn't want to waste time with such things--maybe he wants to just have fun instead of all the drama.Maybe the stuff is not any of your business and he prefers to keep it to himself ---or he will talk to whomever he chooses--whether you like it or not.. 3 months??? good luck, and have fun--relax and stop wasting time over this.
2007-02-06 19:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well i guess you can let him know your there for him. and that you care about him and if at anytime he needs to talk or open up let him know you want to be there for him and that his life and his joys and pains are important to you as you care for him. Say it from the heart. And only if you feel this way towards him and be there for him as you would want him to be there for you. then let it be and he will think it over and if he's ready in time he will open up to you.
I would just be sincere and let him know he's very important to you and that if something is bothering him he can confide in youi and it stays right between you to.
2007-02-06 21:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time. like, a few years when your out of high school
2007-02-06 19:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till HE is ready and he will then be there for him no matter what.
2007-02-06 19:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure him, just when you're together just talk to him about your day and ask what happen to his... then eventually he'll talk more
2007-02-06 19:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by mei_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. If you pressure him, he'll clam right up.
2007-02-06 19:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2007-02-06 19:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Van 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋