I am still in love with my ex gf. I am trying to get her out of my heart, but I cant seem to do it. We knew each other for 3 years and dated for a year and a half. We did everything together and it was great. But she had an ex bf that she was still in love with. Even though I won her over her ex bf, she went through alot of emotional pain when I was with her. She did used to cry about him when I was with her. Even though I was seeing her while this was happening. About a month ago she got harder(emotionally) and we fought over stupid things that I didnt even cause. I mean I stood up for what was right, in my eyes, of course I took on every angle. When one night about 31 days ago, she kissed this "friend" of hers that she must of known for a max of 2 weeks and they have been together ever since. I am 25, she is 26. I dont know what to do, I am finding it difficult not to contact her and I do think about her often. I am the kinda guy who loves deep and I find it hard to move on.help.
2007-02-06 19:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the mistake you made is you gave her your heart instead of sharing your love.
you have to have a love that is greater than the two of you that you both can share. whether this be family, God, money whereever you think that you can put your heart for safe keeping.
and then after you have put your heart in a safe place something you love with all your heart then you can find a girl to share you love with. if she rejects sharing your love, then she does not have your heart to step on, only the relationship.
2007-02-06 19:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't been that long you need to give it time. My situation was similar to yours, I am still married to my husband he won over the ex boyfriend but I am guessing he was her first real love and that takes alot to get over as you are finding out for yourself.
I think you know yourself that it is over and she isn't coming back. I know you would like to contact her but if you do don't make an argument out of it because it only makes you feel worse.
You won't move on straight away because you are still in love with this girl. As time goes on it will ease but you have to get out and start enjoying yourself and not dwell on her because you will find it hrder and harder to move on.
Good luck and I hope all goes well for you.
2007-02-06 19:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is that IT WILL GO AWAY!
but it's still very raw at the moment, as it was only recent. You are going to need much more time.
Don't force yourself to feel better, just ride it out for a bit longer and your life will fit back into place in its own good time.
2007-02-06 19:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkgemgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quit hanging on. You need to move on for the better. Understand that you deserve to be treated with respect and that did not happen. Time will pass and you will find someone who really cares about you!
2007-02-06 19:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, you have to grieve some, but try to go out with friends or even date, time will take care of it,..It just takes time, and it is different for everyone..
2007-02-06 19:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out more and start dating.
2007-02-06 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of fishes in the sea bro!
2007-02-06 19:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by RockyRoad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋