There is no sparkle in my eyes nor roses on my cheeks.And i look sad too, If any of you believe in prayer remember me,
2007-02-06 19:26:52 · 12 answers · asked by becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok!i`ll pray
but remember it all is up to you!
2007-02-06 19:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am sorry to say I don't believe in prayer, however if I may give you a little advice, I believe that the problem you are facing is simply that you are looking in the wrong place. I do not mean that as far as the dating and romance though maybe there too but before you can focus on love and romance you must focus on yourself. You need to look at the things that are good in your life. I don't know you so these are just examples: good health good job loving family loving pets loving friends,. Stuff like that. Those are the kind of things that you want to have light you up, not a relationship. Relationships are like careers you have to put in alot of hard and exhausting work and that at times can make you feel blue but those things that i mentioned are the true but often taken for granted blessings in life. As for a relationship hang on cause love will hunt you down club you over the head make you see stars and drag you off to it's cave when it knows you are ready, just cause you think you are dosen't mean you are, the opisit sex can tell when someone isn't ready and they will move on trust yourself and and everything will fall into place for you. Good luck
2007-02-07 03:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by faern2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I am in the same boat you are. I have asked out over twenty girls and been rejected all twenty times. Some excuses seemed legit but others i knew were downright lies. The advice i can give is second hand, that my friends have given to me. although it is cliche we just need to fight through the pain and keep our chins up. And when we least expect it, it will happen.
2007-02-07 03:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Eli O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sweetheart, keep your chin up and know that you have not found that guy yet. Don't get discouraged or give up hope or be depressed about it. I know for a fact that there are so many lonely people in this world, otherwise why would those online dating things work for those businesses.......
Keep your faith in who you are and your values,......maybe try going to church and going to a singles Bible study? God bless you and know that you are worth so much to God that He would send Jesus to come to earth and die for you even if you were the only person on earth. He loves you that much :-)
I will pray that God touches your life, and I am actually going to a wedding this april for my cousin-in-law who has waited until she was 28 to get married. She is such a sweetheart and we are all so happy for her, she is marrying a doctor whom she met online about six years ago and is now truly happy and accepting that this is ok for her.
I hope the best for you....
2007-02-07 03:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Godess, I have just the Prayer for you. It's a Prayer that you look within Your Heart. To find that One Soul. We've gotten away from seeing Love as coming from Our Heart. It's where it's suppose to be found. If we have it from "any other part of our bodies"? It'll go bust, every time! Bring it back to where it's suppose to be. Listen to the Thumping! You'll find him. Respect yourself enough to be honest, with you and him!
2007-02-07 03:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe in prayer but God is pretty busy and maybe you need to get out there and help yourself.Go out today and smile at 5 people ..tomorrow make it 6 etc.I'm 51yr when i was 38(after 20 years of marriage)I found out my hubby and best?friend were doing the deed.Met someone 12mths later fell pregnant got dumped had stillborn daughter at 41 met my soulmate when i wasn't looking.I8months ago i was told i had pancreatic cancer and would be dead in 6weeks.Obviously i am still here!My s/m is still with me(by the way....he is 9yrs younger than me!).If you are meant to meet someone you will.I WILL pray for you but you have to smile for me at least once a day!OK?LOL
2007-02-07 03:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by maggie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't dwell on it, and live in the present. I'm the same way as you alot (you know, as a guy of course), and I've found that the best way to deal with it is to put it on the back burner and just live your life.
2007-02-07 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you cheer up. No one loves a sourpuss.
2007-02-07 03:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always one for you
try to find where she is
start now do not waste time go ahead
2007-02-07 03:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may i ask how old you are? eventually everyone finds love, sometimes when they least expect it. dont try so hard..it will come to you.. wongfiehung2003@yahoo.com
2007-02-07 03:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋