i just caught my boyfriend together with the other woman...we fight...i was realy shocked that she choose that woman instead of ..we've been 8 years...and he met that woman 2 months ago...i had quarrel with them..and to the point that we hit each other...i was really really shocked that he kick me...he cover that girl so that i can't hit her...and the worse is they are still together right now..but i heard from his friend that the girl will return to her province....my question is..what if after what had happen he will come back to me and asking sorry..what should i do? shall i accept him and give another chance? please help me...
2007-02-06 19:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. leave that son of ***** immediately, even if he comes back he wont be truthful to u. you find a new one and make him envy
2007-02-06 19:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I will never give him another chance not even a half chance. The reason why is that he will be using you if he does this and it will happen again in the future, I'm sure of that. So dump and forget him and find someone else.
Hope this helps hun and Good Luck.
2007-02-06 19:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is my belief that cheating can be forgiven when its just sex but this feels like it's more than that with them. If it were my wife I would leave. If he comes back then it's not completely hopeless but you must talk with him and really try to help him decide what he wants, these mistakes are often a one sided thing but a relationship is two sided and all aspics of it should be two sided. You both would need to sit down and talk about what drove him to her and what made him come back and together come to a decision that works for you both. When someone cheats it's easy to just assign blame and not consider the feelings that are behind it, maybe he is really hurting cause he hurt you, maybe he is trying to get even with you for some stupid thing you forgot about, maybe he has fallen out of love with you, but maybe he is unsure of himself and is questioning his decision to be with you. People think cheating is sex and that's all, sometimes that's true but more often if you really explore the situation you will find that self esteem and self doubt are a big part of it.
2007-02-06 19:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by faern2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. dumping the guy would be the best answer. but dont rush in making descisions. as you said, youve been with the guy for 8 years so basically it means that you know a lot about him now (his ideas,way of thinking, etc). if ever he comes back apologizing to you, give him a chance to explain himself(why he did those things) and then give yourself time to think if youre gonna forgive him.
and remember. there's only 1 "2nd chance". dont let him do the same thing to you again. be wise and goodluck. ;)
2007-02-06 19:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Leira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this unfaithfull guy. He will never come back to you coz he is not the same person as you met. Human changed, and he already changed his heart to love another woman. Why suffer to love a man who can't stay faithfull??
2007-02-06 19:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not give him another chance there is no room for physical violence on either side of a relationship. Physical violence is a form of abuse of the other partner - I wuold advise you to move on and not to take him back. That way you will spare yourself more hurt.
2007-02-06 19:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you accept him, it's very likely that he cheats on you again! He did it once, he'll do it again. That's te way it is unfortunately. And he kicked you??? If he cared for you, he would've tried to explain you the situation, he wouldn't cover her and kick you!!
2007-02-06 19:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No get away from the cheat and be glad you found out now. You are crazy if you take him back. There are guys out there that do not cheat you will find"Mr,Right".
2007-02-06 19:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! if he has taken to her and let you go then you need to find someone who will put you first. he took her over you.im sorry hun but it's time to find someone that will treat you like an angel insted of dirt.
2007-02-06 19:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlyness2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to kill 2 birds with 1 stone? chuck him away n get 1 new 4 replacement asap.
2007-02-06 19:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋