okay let me give you some foundation. my boyfriend wants to be a journalist. hes really good at writting.. okay.. so he has a myspace. i dont. he also has this best friend. and yes his best friend is a girl and they used to have a thing for each other before we got together. okay so on myspace he posts these blogs.. one like every week. and sometimes two maybe even three at a time. since him and i have offically became a couple he has yet to post a blog about our relationship. to top it off every two out of three of his blogs are written to his best friend. i mean i love my boyfriend.. and we wanna move in together. we spend everyday together. and when he writes his blogs he doesnt even include me in any of them. should i be mad?? im hurt.. but is this really a big deal? ive brought it to his attention before but he has done nothing about it. and when i tell him all he says is that he doesnt wanna waste his time talking about it. is he trying to hide our relationship??
2007-02-06 19:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by prettiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that is hard...ok myspace is a relationship killer (so I like to call it). A lot of females like to send messages to men even though knowing he is 'taken'..Grrrrrrr that pisses me off. Anyhow, my ex has myspace and I used to go thru his comments that his female friends posted and I did not like most of the comments. I used to see, "Hey sexy, whatcha' doing later baby?" or "mmmm I would luv those lips on my lips" OMG are they crazy? Hello he's taken, what part of: STATUS: did they not understand?! lol
What really hurt me was that he had a very close female friend (they dated in the past and of course we're intimate) so she would post these sexual comments and I would be oh my god jealous...I asked him if he had feelings for her and he would reply, "no, we are thru, just friends, stop worrying so much, I love you" (like in your case). I believed him but I knew he STILL had feelings for her otherwise those comments wouldn't have made him blush.
I think you should tell him this, "Look I know you and she are very good friends but I should be your best friend. If you're in a relationship and you say you love me then there should be no other before me." Let him know how you really feel. Don't act like a baby and talk soft and kitty kitty, be real and let him know you're not fuck1ing around. That ***** is trying to take your man...slowly...with her retarded comments. I would tell him to end it with her. I made my ex end his friendship because trust me you think a guy and a girl can really be best friends? (especially knowing they had something in the past)? No! I do not believe in male and female best friends unless they're getting it on or want to get it on.
So tell him just like that because he shouldn't be writing about her in his blogs..exposing it to all his other friends that she means more, UH UH! wrong. Let him know your true emotions. You're not being jealous or over reacting you just want a stable relationship without wh0res ruining it. So do what you have to do and handle it!... speak your mind! If he does not bother to change, dump him because it'll only get worst because they will definitely do something that will hurt you more. If he can't sacrifice that for you then he's not worth it...P.S. I dumped my boyfriend & now he's begging like a lil wh0re to get back with me but too late, should of made sacrifices for me before.... tata... Good luck!
2007-02-06 19:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry but you need to just enjoy your relationship and get over myspace, myspace isn't that important anymore and if he doesn't write about you it's probably because he's not into telling other people that go on between him and his private life i think that you should just drop it and enjoy your time with him. You shouldn't let something like that get in the way, its ridiculous.
2007-02-06 19:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit, that is very weird. Why doesnt he want to waste his time writing about you, but wastes his time writing about the other one? Anyways, you did not mention what kind of things he actually says about his friend. It is totally normal for u to be hurt, since you know he had something for her.
2007-02-06 19:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i in my opinion found out that my female chum grew to become into cheating by myspace too. different than we've been jointly for six years and that i in my opinion chanced on some messages that defined what she did with the different guy. I had to get her password emailed to her digital mail handle wich I already new the password to. Any approaches. I alos asked an exceedingly comparable question while this got here approximately to me. verify my previous quesitons out once you get a super gamble. After some month and a 0.5 of questioning it over i found out that that's ultimate to attend untill you're questioning extra of course to make a determination. you do not might desire to do something now. only wait and provide it time. you will later discover out that their are different individuals available who would be attentive to a thank you to handle you suited or you will comprehend which you would be unable to stay with out this guy and you opt to artwork it out. in spite of everything that's ultimate to attend. you have gotten some days the place you overlook approximately him and others the place you would be unable to end questioning approximately him. With time nevertheless you will start to work out the bigger image and make a extra sensible determination. Plus in case you definitely need to work out if it grew to become into ment to be you will possibly desire to permit him flow. its genuine what they are asserting. additionally, he might desire to not comprehend what he has and in case you only go away him for a at the same time as he might desire to get excitement from yo extra. by the way. It does not sound such as you have concrete evedence of him cheating on you. i could first verify before you leap to conclusions.
2016-09-28 13:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by puzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is hiding it if he talks about her and not you. Myspace is free join up and see how he likes that you are on there and maybe he will get it. Luck to ya.
2007-02-06 19:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to straddle both sides of the fence, trust me. its not fair to you. you should be concerned.
2007-02-06 19:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb.
2007-02-06 19:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by twism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, if he was proud about it don't you think he'd write about it??
2007-02-06 19:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by angel_lillian001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋