Guys find it romantic to be in a private place with a women with just the two of you. or maybe at a fancy resturant.
my girl? well I love her smile the most and then her eyes =)
It depends on the guy though and what he likes for where he looks. What stands out most about you?
most likely guys are hormonal and their instincts tell them to look at your sexual features like breasts or you bottom. Yet you cant really control that without surgery. Well groomed hair, clean teeth, and a little color from makeup helps them know you care about how you look too.
2007-02-06 18:52:17
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answered by Sore wa himitsu desu! 3
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Do you want the romantic version or the TRUTH?
The truth is we first look at the overall body shape. Men have different body shapes they are attracted to. Second, and very importantly, are the breasts. I don't just mean size. I mean whether or not you are showing off what you have. And don't give me any crap about that one everyone! I told you I was going to tell the truth, not the romance novel version! Then it is the face and hair. I don't mean a beautiful face, but a nice, kind face. And if you can show a mischievous smile, you can make any man your slave. Almost all men LOVE long hair. What we HATE most is hair that looks stiff and hard. I can't even count how many times I have heard other guys talking about how much they hate it when women use lots of gel or spray in their hair. We love the feel of soft, long hair. After that is comes down to individual tastes. But one thing all men love and that is a really sexy skirt or dress. Forget about tight pants and all that crap. We want to feel you are soft and feminine when you are with us. All we can think about is how sexy your legs look in that skirt/dress.
If you have noticed, I did not talk about beauty here. If a woman considers these things, even if she is not pretty, she can turn a lot of heads if she does things right.
After all, you are talking about winning a guy's attention. And TRUE knowledge will win. If you say, "But a man should love me the way I am" you are correct, but you WILL lose.
2007-02-07 03:23:42
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answered by A dad & a teacher 5
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Every guy has his own "thing" he's drawn to first. A lot of guys like butts (Silly, huh?) and a lot look at boobs first, but that doesn't just mean big ones. Some like small, and some just like them in proportion to the girl. Some like hair, and some are drawn to warm, friendly smiles. Those cover the majority, but there are those who like eyes, legs, teeth, hands, even feet. Guys are mostly visual, and decide other things like personality later. Sad but true.
2007-02-07 03:00:52
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answered by trai 7
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the first thing guys find attractive when they see a woman for the first time? varies from guy to guy. some like eyes, others lips, still others (of course) pecs or glutes; then there are leg men, men who like the natural look (more than you'd think,) and then there was my dad, who'd look at a woman, and remark, "nice nostrils!"
2007-02-07 02:58:09
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answered by Auntie M. 3
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The first things we look at are your eyes, then your mouth, then your breasts, then your legs. That's almost universal, according to my personal research, and I've been at it for half a century.
So if you want to attract a guy, make sure he sees in your eyes and face what he wants, and he won't look further down - until later.
2007-02-07 02:55:59
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answered by Anonymous
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When I slow dance with you in the moonlight to sultry jazz, I am interested in the contour of your hands, the gleam in your eyes, the softness of your hair, the perfume that you wear, and the magnetic quality your body exudes dancing close to me.
Being a hopeless romantic most of my life, I prefer to romance women as opposed to dating them.
2007-02-07 03:03:07
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answered by Monsieur Rick 7
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Mature men of substance look for women who act and dress appropriately----show that they are interesting, pleasant company, take care of their appearance and are proud of their individuality---and what they are on the INSIDE. So be proud, stand tall, smile and just be nice
2007-02-07 02:56:10
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answered by fire_inur_eyes 7
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for me i guess hair, eyes, and attitude.
Total b*tch isn't my type
and don't put on too much make up, it's a turn off for many guys
2007-02-07 02:57:47
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answered by briank1458 4
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soft voice, sweet smile,long beautiful hair, soft skin, eligant walk,
2007-02-07 03:03:02
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answered by heavenlyness2 1
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I look at those beautiful legs of yours Lia!
2007-02-07 09:21:11
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answered by Anonymous
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