2007-02-06 18:45:33 · 20 answers · asked by juliaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try looking in church.
2007-02-06 18:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The peeople you should blame for not being able to find a nice BF are not the guys out there that are asswholes. The people you should blame are the women who go through men like pairs of underwaer, the women that think it is OK to cheat just because they wont get caught, and the women that take advantage of a guy who is kind and trusting and will take care of a woman. The majority of us men actually start out in the game of love as nice guys. After a few relationship encounters with the previously mentioned women, (Who are becoming more and more common these days), the same guy who was once the kind of guy you are looking for is now ready to treat women the same way they have treated him. The more women become slutes, the more guys become assholes, and vice versa to be fair. Just remember this the next time one of your girlfriends braggs about the guy she cheats on her boyfriend or hubby with.
2007-02-06 18:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by youngdude021 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say nice boyfiend...you mean someone you will spend your life with. Or at least someone with that potential. Right?
Sometimes you don't find this person. Sometimes you just happen upon eachother. Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to discourage. Yet I think you should change your attitude about the matter. More to why do I keep choosing men who do not truly love me or treat me how I feel I deserve to be? I really hope this is not coming off as harsh.
2007-02-06 18:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking the same thing but Vice Versa...Why is it difficult to find a nice girl friend?
I guess from what i see is that the opposite attracts for some strange reason. All the nice girls are with assholes, and all the chill (nice) guys are with "bitches". It takes a while for the nice ones to find eachother, unfortunately....
2007-02-06 18:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Micheal 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well nice guys are usually not extremely attractive and over looked cause they don't stand out to well. And if one does or he bends over backwards or complains about how nice guys finish last he's probably doing it to cover the insecurities he has. You really have to look past labeling and groups (ex. nice guy) and evaluate each on a friendly basis to understand the workings of that particular guys mind and pick.
2007-02-06 18:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by postsecondreturn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because nice boyfriends are not born they are made.
a lot of girls are looking for mr right. that is their first mistake. what you should be looking for is a group of men that meet your criteria.
are you looking for a tradesmen, some one who will help you fix things around the house? a professional, someone who can pay for a tradesman to come over and fix things around the house?
a patron of the arts, someone you can sit around the piano and sing with or go enjoy a good movie.
a religious man, someone you can share your love of God with?
find out what kind of guy you want and then make yourself attractive to that kind of guy.
tradesman, take classes and study hard at becoming good at a trade.
professional, take classes and study hard to become an academic.
patron of the arts, find groups to join that fit your interests.
religious man, study your bible and go to as many churches as it takes to find the one that has an honest man in it. caution should be taken here because churches are more for the sinner than the saint.
then when you start hanging around the kind of guy you want make you self available to TALK to and this is how you find mr. right.
if he treats you like a queen, then you treat him like a king and tadaaa, you have reached your goal.
did i say it was going to be easy?
2007-02-06 19:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these nice guys are despondent because the women they want all gravitate towards jerks. Go figure. I am a nice guy with a good sense of humor and an edge that you would find attractive.
2007-02-06 18:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's not hard to find someone nice. it just depends of what you are looking for in a boy friend. there are many single nice guys out there , i am one of them. it's just a matter of finding the one your looking for.
2007-02-06 19:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by heavenlyness2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz the all the potential guys who have the ability to get gals are big time screw ups and there not even a single fellow who is good in that list., meaning the good fellows are not having the confidence to get a gal. So keep lookign and go deep into everyone.
2007-02-06 18:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Q&A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Point is , you have to wait till your right time aproach , certainly someone , some where is there for you . Now just concentrate on your career .
2007-02-06 18:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..it's hard, most of my guy friends are the "nice guys"..
i realize that..they dont put themselves out there as much.
but the weird thing is..when they do... they get shot down because girls automatically think they are "players"
ah... i dont know how it all works.
best of luck to you.. im sure you know of some... you just dont notice them yet
2007-02-06 18:53:31 · answer #11 · answered by aliseeah 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋