OK, this is so weird, but first week of school (3 years ago) I met this guy and I started hanging out with him because he didn't seem to have any other friends..but soon we became great friends. I can talk to him for hours, we have everything in common and he's lots of fun to be around. Then last year, we had different classes and work so i didn't see him too much but we kept in touch through email and IM. This year, I see him more but now he's almost always with other girls, lots of girls. Theyre always hanging out with him and it limits the time i spend with him. to make matters worse, I'm in love with him and I'm starting to feel jealous. I know theyre just his friends but it bothers me that he might like any of them. I teased him about having 200 gfs but am afraid to bring it up directly...he's too nice to turn me away and i dont want to ruin what i have. he says he "doesn't dislike me" what the hell is that supposed to mean? why cant he just say he likes me too, if he does?
2007-02-06 18:40:35 · 7 answers · asked by vniya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so i get the definite answer and lose the friend? :( AND did i mention? he knows who i liked in the past and who liked me...but he never mentioned who he liked, he gets very passive when the topic comes up and i didnt want to be pushy :(
2007-02-06 18:59:48 · update #1
Boys say they like you when they like you black and white. If you really love him, propose to him. He also enjoyed your company when you both where the only there. He would'nt have gottenback that privacy, intimacy with the anyone of the present set of gals for the simple reason that there are too many. So go ahead and tell him about your feelings
2007-02-06 19:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Q&A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0It doesn't help just guessing all the time girl. He obviously only sees you as a friend, maybe because he doesn't know how you feel about him. The best thing you can do is invite him for a drink and talk to him. Tell him how you get jealous when he is with other girls, and ask him how he feels about you. Tell him you love the friendship that you have, but does he think you could become more than just friends. If he says no, deal with it. If he says he feels the same for you, you go girl!
2007-02-07 02:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gypsyeyes has the best answer. The emotional angst that people go through when it comes to knowing how a person feels seems like an epic adventure story going back to the day you were born. No one wants to be rejected and everyone wants to be loved. So you either sit on the sideline or get into the mix.
2007-02-07 03:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because teenage guys are mentally retarded? I honestly don't know. Many of us have the same problem. I say just cut through the BS and ask him outright, at least then you'll have a definite answer.
2007-02-07 02:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by gypsyeyes_bradhadair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just trying to have more options while waiting for the right one to come along. As for him saying "doesn't dislike you" to you would probably mean that he does having feelings for you (at least more than just being a friend). He may be just trying to test how you react when he says that (trying to be cheeky at the same time).
2007-02-07 02:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hanging aroung with a lot of other guys and see what he does (if he gets jealous or not).
2007-02-07 02:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by StarlightSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you just as a friend,nothing more.You will have to tell him your feelings.
2007-02-07 02:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋