how can u be faithful to ur partner?

Answer 1

You don't think about it, you just do it!

Answer 2

First I want you to look into your partner's smiling eyes and imagine the disappointment and hurt that would come by cheating on them. It isn't easy staying faithful, but neither is staying good most of the time, hell we're faced with temptations everyday. You know everything from food to partners. "I'll have one more bite of this cake, my diet can wait!" But that's where your morals and strength of character is tested. As you can see, it's easy to do bad, but it takes a stronger person to resist by following through. There are a few things that goes a long way:

Only be with a person for love, never for lust. If you're happy thinking about your partner with their clothes on...then that's a good start, hold on to that.

Avoid getting into D.U.M shyt. Doped Up Motherf*ucker. This is when you're partying late out at night with your friends, getting drunk, losing your memory, and rubbing up on hoochies looking for their next meal ticket. Party with style if you need your kicks, put down the drink and remember one night of stupidity isn't worth the hardwork that went into your relationship.

Woo your lover with romance. Want to know the number one complaint among couples? They don't feel appreciated! This is why so many couples end up hating on each other, because they forget about the effort they put into the beginning of the relationship. When you first started dating someone what did you do? You were cordial, had your best hair style, looking good, smelling good, and getting each other those cute presents just because. This is romance. This is what you need to keep the passion alive, sure you need love, but what good is love if you don't stoke it? Keep the fire going by complimenting, everyone likes to be told they look gorgeous, especially by the person they're dating! Spend a little money and wine and dine each other, don't be a cheapo! Get creative and go on random trips, indulge each other senses with erotic sex. There's plenty of websites and books that come up with inventive ways to make dating your lover an adventure.

When the going gets tough, alot of couples start looking for the backdoor hoping to find someone to fill their loose britches. Remember it is your partner who has been with you every step of the way, not Mr. or Mrs. Quickie who has nothing to lose, they're not the ones dating your partner. This is where I can't emphasize enough how important it is to bring out your listening skills, by placing yourself in your partner's shoes and hearing exactly what is they're saying to you. Then come to a solution together on how to fix the situation. Running away never solved anything, and an an affair is just that.

Those are the basics, seems real simple huh? It can be if you practice it with love and keep your head on straight.

Answer 3

If you are truly in love with your partner, then the temptationn you face to be unfaithfull will not be as strong as the thought of how this action would hurt them, (and yourself with guilt.) If this is not the case and you cannot resist such temptation then you need to be man/woman enough to tell the person you are with that you cannot continue the relationship before you act on this temptation. If you are too much of a coward to do this, and just take the easy out by lying and cheating, you are a lazy selfish piece of scum, and deserve to go to hell. There is nothing wrong with having sex with who you want when you want, but when you decide to commit yourself to one person, you forfit the right to be that way. If you were not ready to me faithfull then you should have never made that commitment. Please do the right thing, nobody deserves to be cheated on.

Answer 4

By making the commitment to be faithful. There isn't anything magical about the process. If you are mature enough and have enough integrity you can just decide that this is the person you love and you will not cheat on her. It's as simple as that.

Answer 5

true love is faithful..are you in love? you said partner are you planning a future?infidelity is like a drug so just say no!! stay out of situations where you can cheat! but most of all true love is faithful..i know because GOD's love is faithful and i have been
waiting for my husband for 2 years but i pray and ask GOD to keep me until my husband returns..you gotta take the good with the bad but true love is faithful!

Answer 6

i have done my share of "partying" in a lot of ways as a young adult, to know that theres something more to look forward to
than merely sexual attraction in someone. i have pass that categories.

second i have done my own soul searching, had enough experiments failed and success wtih life and relationsip, but no regrets. it is what make who i am today.

if you are sure what you want in life, who you are, and understand where you stand...its a good recipe to find true love.

someone you want to grow old with, see his balls drop south and thought "oh how cute"LOL
someone who is an ultimate best friend, lover, husband/partner, confidant, saviour, carer, etc etc.

so the answer is, you can! if that person was worth to be commited too.

Answer 7

Try thinking of someone other than yourself for once. If you want to be with a different person then break up and move on.

You should have some amount of respect for your current partner and treat him/her accordingly.

Answer 8

By making a conscious decision to be faithful and think about losing them that may work.

Answer 9

It is a no brainer----the way you act is YOUR choice--act like a faithful mate---anything else is immature and unacceptable--if you need others, don't expect a mate to be faithful and wait for you. Do the right thing, be nice.

Answer 10

being faithful is easy. just make sure your partner is the only one you give your heart to and the only one you want. make sure your partner is the only person you have physicle contact with.

Answer 11

You just marry someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with and the rest should be easy...If you love someone you will not want to see them hurt...You do not do that anyway..if you cannot remain faithful,stay single...