Ladies, what are you actually looking for in men b/c the "nice" guys get screwed over all the time and you seem to go after the "bad" boys all the time? Also, when a guy first approaches you, what are the best things to say to you to get you like us?
2007-02-06 18:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by Pedro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess we are looking for someone genuine, caring and honest. (although there aren't many of them out there!) Just be yourself when around ladies. We can spot a "player" or a "con' from a mile off. Don't pretend to be something that your not! Be respectful, a gentleman (open doors etc.) and don't treat her like shes stupid. Treat a lady like you would like to be treated yourself! When you first approach someone who catches your eye, don't use "lines". Say "Hi. I noticed you across the room and thought I would come talk to you. My name is ....... " and take it from there. She will soon let you know if shes not interested. Good luck. Dating is not easy these days!
2007-02-06 18:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a loaded question!!!
I don't believe that the nice guys get screwed over all the time, and I don't particularly like the "bad" boys. I prefer someone who will be honest with me, who will treat me like a human, and even like a lady sometimes. I also want someone who won't be offended if I open the door for HIM sometimes!!
What's best to say to get us to like you??? That totally depends upon the person you're approaching. There is no set "line" that will work every time you use it. How about something honest? Complement her on something, and something polite!! Don't tell her what a cute *** she has and how much you'd like to....
Relax. Be yourself.
2007-02-07 02:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pam B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not true either. Who says all the nice guys are being left out? If it's really the scenario, then the girls are silly for not noticing guys as mentioned earlier. Maybe, it's not yet time of you to meet your dream girl. Be patient and just wait for the day to come. We ladies of course like guys who are warmth, friendly and don't over do it when approaching us. Just be yourself and don't pretend. Don't be a 1 sided talking. Both party should exchange info's of oneself equally. Relax and have fun. Treat us ladies as 1 of your buddy too.
2007-02-07 02:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by freezing lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me, it seems like you always attract the wrong women... maybe it's the way you woo them... my bf is a "nice" guy who got used by his previous gf, but i'm still with him after 2 yrs +
what i look for in a guy will not be what other women look for in a guy, but i like guys with positive attitudes, a sense of humor (able to cheer me up), understanding, caring, have a backbone, romantic, loyal, unselfish, truthful, basically a guy with character :) looks is a plus point. i love my bf and won't trade him for any other :D he's a REALLY NICE guy!!! i'm not a "bad" guy kind of girl... NOT ALL girls are like what you think they are...
2007-02-07 02:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pedro a woman likes a man to be a man not a wuss or sissy, play with the woman explore her body, ask questions but never appear hurt or unsure even if you are women like a real man the who knows how to woo her treat her like a woman should be treated, wine and dine her love her with passion that leaves her feeling like a woman, and wanting more.
2007-02-07 02:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same exact betch with men, i mean why do they always go for the skinny blondes with big ole boobies?
2007-02-07 03:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋