If a guy likes you and you like him, but at the same time he likes other girls too, and he is always talking to you about the other girls, what does this mean?
2007-02-06 18:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 21 and he is 18.
2007-02-06 18:35:35 · update #1
It means he feels close to u and he can trust you, but he probly doesn't want to give up his playboy lifestyle. It doesn't mean ur not the 1, jus that he's not mature enough to be in a committed relationship.
If u think he's the conniving sort he may be doing it as a test of how u react to when he does something bad. Or could be trying to hint about what he likes in the other girls so that u can try to be like them. Also immature to do.
If u truly want him, you'll have to set the rules that he has to let go of the others if he's gunna hold onto u. Otherwise, wait til he grows up, or don't and find someone who really wants U.
2007-02-06 18:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he values your friendship and opinion.
or it means that he is telling you "yeah, me and so and so were kissin and stuff the other night for almost and hour." and he could be telling you he likes doin the stuff and if you don't do the stuff with him then you will not get as much of his attention.
if the first one is the case you should value his friendship. the more friends you have the better idea you will have as to what kind of boyfriend you are looking for.
if the second one is the case and you can put up with him you can keep him around for laughs, but he is definately not boyfriend material until he grows up.
the main thing here is become a better you, and dont worry so much about being someones girlfriend. the wider your range of interests the more guys will seek you out. then you can take your pick.
it takes a while to change your image from being boycrazy to being irresistable. but if you focus on friendships and ways of sharing your talents it can be done. i know you have more talents than just being a good kisser. find em.
2007-02-06 18:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there. I am 22 years old. Do you even know for sure that he likes you as more than a friend? As a guy, I value being direct with my feelings. Some people, (guys included), like to be "crazymakers" and manipulate people to gather information. He could be surveying you to see what you value and like. But, personally, I wouldn't be talking about other girls to you if I had feelings for you. I think you should see if he really likes you or not. If he won't be direct, then you should consider airing out your feelings. It takes a lot of guts but you need to know for sure because it sounds like this situation is driving you nuts. You could try asking him if he has feelings for someone. I hate to say it but it is also possible that this guy just likes girls for the physical aspect. To conclude, I would evaluate what kind of person he is to the best of your knowledge and then be direct with your feelings. Be direct but do it in a cordial way. Good luck.
2007-02-06 18:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by AndyS22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he's playing the field, not ready to get serious about just one certain girl. You all must be very young, or he would not talk about other girls when he's with you, that's a sign of immaturity.
2007-02-06 18:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he trusts you as a friend. Though he could be trying to make you jealous if he really likes you. Most likely you're the type he would like to hand out with.
2007-02-06 18:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sore wa himitsu desu! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like he's exploring and he likes the attention he gets from you and the other girls. I am sure he likes you but he also has his eyes wide open for other girls and he's open and game with them like he is with you.
2007-02-06 18:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he doesn't like u, he is just spending time with u untill he gets some better girls, about whom he talks all the time
2007-02-06 18:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dodo dodo dodo It means you have entered another dimension, a paralell world, known as......The Friend Zone. He problably really does like you, so why not ask him straight out if you want to start a relationship.
2007-02-06 18:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Colt Seavers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he sees you as one of guys and as a good friend. One that he trust.
2007-02-06 18:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dereck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be parannoid about hiim liking someone else.
Or he could be doing that to get more attention from you.
2007-02-06 18:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Amil Khassim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋